Why a woman approached me for the first time in my life.

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  1. jhow47

    jhow47 Fapstronaut

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    I had a similar experience

    I was with my friends in a table waiting for the food, we were talking about stories at work and then my friend said that had this girl looking at me and maybe she was interested in me.
    I thought it was not for me because my friend is more handsome than me so i didn't took that serious. few minutes past and i look at her and she smiled for me. I had no reaction because that doesn't happen often. I didn't had guts to go talk to her so i continued to talk with my friends and then she left. I regret that day so for the next time someone make this again i will not ignore the sign, i will aproach and say whatever comes to my mind regardless of the rejection.
     
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  2. ? ? ?

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    Amazing . . .
     
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  3. Harrynak

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    This very post made me decide that is time for a change and i will start today

    thank you for that my friend
     
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  4. iaj

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    Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.
     
  5. realworld

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    tnx for the storie man you gives me motivation to keep going!
     
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  6. Alaskamoose

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    Awesome story laj! Thanks for sharing ! It is true, we Fnauts are a rare breed and people pick up on our energy :)
     
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  7. on_a_mission4truth

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    I have had similar experiences. It's really cool :D
     
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  8. arkad1

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    The thread starts with "women approached me before..."

    I think there is nothing else to add to that...
     
  9. rob13_

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    Happened to me too when I was on my best Last year. Unfortunately I didn't do it right and relapsed. This year is mine, and I hope to see some more of this women attraction.
     
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  10. arkad1

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    The only one time a sexy woman approached me i was still masturbating and watching porn :D
     
  11. ramiman

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    that's sor interisting man, i think when yous top fapping you start realising an see what happend around you,
     
  12. unbeepmyself

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    Another thread I can truly relate to. It has happened to me as well.

    It's truly remarkable the things we don't understand.

    Something to point out from my experiences is that when a woman gives me those responses of attraction, I can feel her attraction from the bottom of my guts. It makes me feel very very masculine.
     
  13. iaj

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    Well said. When you have an addiction, you become desensitised from over-consuming on pleasure. Hence you lose touch with intuition and subtleties. Abstinence restrengthens your ability to fine tune and become more aware the world outside your substance abuse.
     
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  14. Congratulations! That is a one in a million. If something like that ever does happen to me, I'd feel gratitude and a sense of calming. It's every blue moon a woman will come and give you her number like that. Woman don't really approach me at all even at work, but I'm usually less relaxed because I'm working on freight or stocking an aisle. Also my facial expressions and emotions are timid. I get nervous to be honest if a cute Woman walks into my aisle.
    But I'm happy for you man, we all have something inside of us. Different Woman/Men are attracted to it and I guess better believe it. Sense it!
     
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  15. R3dFlY

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    Amazing mate . Congrats !!
     
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  16. Ra1

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    The self control part is the most amazing result of nofap. Iam on day 24 of Monk Mode and I can feel the brust of energy inside me.
     
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  17. iaj

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    Respect to you and your monk mode. Self mastery is key.
     
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  18. keithevans

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    its not like that every time it happens but you should be capable enough to sustain for foreplay for that famous generic version drug named Suhagra is essential for better erection in men those who suffer from ED
     
  19. True, people who reserve their sexual energies have an aura about them they just have this sense of control.... Thanks for your story this has highly motivated me to stop fapping
     
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  20. Amazing man. It's inspiring!
     
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