why am i attracted to 14 and 15 year old?

My classmate got in relationships with a guy when she was 15 and he was like 22/23. They are still together after almost 7 years.
I don't think that it's SUCH a bad age gap if you BOTH guys agree on that, talk things over with your both parents.
If you REALLY like each other and love each other's company - why not?

 

From a biological perspective, they are. Not to defend it, but 'underage' is a perspective that depends on person's country. 16 is legal age here in England, does that mean someone who has sex with a 16 year old is a sicko because legal age is 18 in America?

 

U are atracted because they are fertile

Maybe question should be, why are we atracted to 35+ yo. Its because of makeup, false hair colors etc.

Can u imagine being atracted to a woman with grey hair? No. What color do you think these girls have naturaly.

Lol

 

I struggle with this too buddy. I'm trying to avoid looking at young girls. It's hard sometimes though.

 

It could be that you are attracted to her because she is attractive. Why do you need some complicated explanation?

 

We all are to some level. Just don't go for them. Find an adult woman, and don't watch porn.

 

As a fellow 22 y/o myself ... lets just stick to girls who've already passed the 18 y/o mark.

 

I believe this is the most legitimate explanation. The same way many men become obsessed with older women due to P influence.

The OP is in his early 20s, so the explanation of 'instinctively' looking for more fertile females is irrelevant. Since women in the same age category as OP are not only fertile but also more apt to carry offsprings successfully and with fewer risks, compared to maturing adolescent girls.

Also, it's not only a question of being underage but also about age difference.

 

Optimal age is probably around 30; finished with school, established in life, independent, of your own socio-cultural background(since its seems its the deciding factor in most cases) and depending on where she is in her career her superior genes speak for themselves. Compared to that seeking someone who can't even hold a 5 minutes conversation solely for her looks is pretty basic; Beside it is better to grown old together rather than constantly worrying that she will look somewhere else when you get too old for her(and you will).

 

Lol optimal age has nothing to do with our BS social constructs. Biological optimal age is at least 10 years lower than 30.

 

Nowadays, this is normal, depending on how younger girls dress and look...but it is better and safer to pay attention to the peers

 

These 'young' girls are attractive because they're simply attractive; young looking, flawless face, all the stuff that indeed says 'fertile'. But also they have a blank sheet for a heart and mind, they're almost fully consumed by feelings and live by them. This makes them impulsive and unrestricted. No mature 'principles' in the way like 'I'm going to make him try really hard because x reason..' or 'I don't like him because he wears white socks' or whatever, all that perfectionistic and demanding BS adult women sometimes have. They don't hide they're feelings, or at least it's not easy to do so at that age. At that age you're just really close to your feelings, making you an open book and much more accessible as well. This is how I remember my time when I was around that age.

Edit: And yes. The way they dress these days certainly adds to it.

 

Plus, after 25 and kids...women aren't interested in sex, from experience. Teen girls are always up for it!

 

i meant optimal for starting a family since you equate attraction with fertility. And optimal age is 24 btw

 

It is not normal, but porn has taught you it is acceptable and so have men trying to push pedophilia and predatory behavior. That thing some guys say about it being in their nature to be attracted to young girls is not true at all--they are making excuses to be a creep. Children, even older children are still kids. You are only "attracted" to kids because women your age see that you have an immature mind and nothing equal to offer them. That's why men try to date younger--easy to fool the naive and easier to control them. Predators like innocent, naive, tiny, hairless people = children. Have a career, show respect to women, take care of yourself, improve your emotional intelligence, and offer equal partnership to house and family. That is what makes you attractive to all women. Leave the girls alone to grow up without creeps and predators.

 

I can relate to this and i'am way older than you. However it gets enhanced by porn, you get more perverted as more you consume as someone else mentioned. And i don't think it's all about the age, more how that one person is physically developed. If you see a girl in that age that is not physically developed, hopefully there is not respons. The innate drive can't tell the difference between a physically developed body wheter it's 17 or 28.