Why are guys asking for female AP

I guess I've seen this enough on the forums where it’s starting to bother me. I can understand if you’re a man that is attracted to the same sex, but if you’re not I truly don’t see or understand what you could possible learn or grow from having an AP. I think it’s great that there are new people joining the forums and sharing their stories and progress, and I don’t want to discourage anyone or make anyone feel bad for expressing themselves in this awesome community.

I just get that gut feeling when guys what a female AP only for "perspective"

I guess I think to myself why are you here? What is it that you want to achieve? I personally don’t have an AP, so I can’t say what they do or what their role is specifically but I would assume that if you’re using the AP as a tool or resource to help you through a difficult time you wouldn’t want someone from the opposite gender.

Just venting...