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Why are we so attracted to female boobs and their vulva?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by AdamTheJensen, Mar 12, 2021.

  1. AdamTheJensen

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    It's a weird question. I would like to know your thoughts about it.
    Is it just a evolutionary thing or the new age of the revolutionary world wide web...?

    ....or even other reasons.

    if we see this just rational, it's just body parts like a hand a leg or something else.
     
  2. Some species of monkeys develop big breats during their fertile season. That is a signal of availability for male monkeys. When female animals aren't in their fertile period, they don't allow males to copulate with them.

    Our attraction for boobs, butts and vaginas is rooted in our monkey brain. Human females have "big breats" all the year, so that is kind of a message of "availability" for males. Our brain identifies that they are willing to copulate, and that turns us on, as we "always" want to copulate.

    However, humans are far more complex than animals, and our preferences are highly conditioned by our psique. Women will only copulate with the males they find suitable, and not with the strongest or hairiest one. They decide to have sex with men based on their own preferences and values (height, weight attractiviness, charisma, intelligence, humor, religious values...).
    The psique also influences men (as neither we are monkeys). That's why every man has it's own preferences, and not all man like big boobs/butts (and not all men are looking for sex constantly).
    You could define psique, as a mix of genetics, brain develop, social enviorenment, values, culture, memories, etc...
     
  3. Lol I'll come out and say it - vaginas don't really look good imo. Boobs are okay, but they definitely aren't a priority for me.
     
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  4. SickSicko

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  5. Women see other women's boobs as just "boobs" or chest, not big deal.
    The attraction of the breast during infancy just never goes away for us men. We have to attracted to vulva to further the species simply said.
     
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  6. AdamTheJensen

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    haha, yes...soo true xD
    thx. for your many replies guys
     
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  7. IGY

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    LMFAO! :D

    I will come out and say it - a big ass doesn't look good IMO.

    An ass is not even a sexual organ!
    I just don't get it. :confused: Anyone else?
     
  8. John wick's dog

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    We are attracted to boobs and vagina because porn has taught us that we should be attracted to boobs or vagina or it's what defines a women. Personally, when I first discovered anal porn, The idea seemed gross to me. I noticed now that after few days after watching regular porn, anal sex didn't seem so gross. Brain keeps tricking us to find new ways to get dopamine. Our dick is not our friend. When we get horny, our body is on auto-pilot mode by our dick. We do things we shouldn't be doing, and forget about the consequences. I've done really embarrassing things which made me question who I became. This reboot is finally a way to think with our head rather than with our dick. STAY STRONG. Fight the new drug.

    That's my take
     
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  9. Gotta disagree with you there - asses are pretty high on my list. But I see where you're coming from. Some women look good with a smaller booty but its pretty uncommon
     
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  10. love your username by the way!

    Hey, that’s a good point about anal because the same happened for me. I didn’t care about it until I started looking at it, then got really into it. It was just a butt, now it’s been overly sexualized.

    Out in public, rather than notice a girls face first my eyes wander to her rear. A quick gaze at a waitress, woman in front of me in line, across the room, I hate it

    Let’s be honest here, know I’ll be sat in a restaurant, my eyes will wander to the TVs, people eating food, then I’ll see a waitress run out of the kitchen or grab something high up and bam, I take a look. It’s funny when you catch other guys looking too. Some guys are vocal about it “hey I think our waitress is cute”
    Idk Maybe it’s just a guy thing and we are overthinking it.
     
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    This is actually something I always question in regards to female fanservice in Anime/manga, why the obcession with drawing Vulvan curves?
     
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  12. blacklabel92

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    long ago before men were hunters there was a land that emerged from the waters now called INDIA. it is there were god and man spoke for the first time. god asked man "what is it that u want?" and man replied "i can have anything?" and god nodded. so man went silent thinking of what he wanted, finally after much time passed. he approached god and said " i know what i want" god said " good, what is it my son?" and the man firmly replied, " bobs and vag."
     
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  13. John wick's dog

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    Who the hell is bob and why you wanna kiss him EWww xDDD
     
  14. SickSicko

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    Sounds legit, is that the indian version of the garden of eden?
     
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  15. It's all what you're used to. In cultures where women are/were completely covered up in public, the glimpse of an ankle is risque, because it turns men on. Good luck getting turned on by an ankle in the West.
     
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  16. PeterGrip

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    I have always loved tits and I doubt that will ever change
     
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    I like big butts, but not too big, but if its not big I dont mind either. As long as her face is attractive and she's not overweight. I still get more attracted from boobs than asses, but both are very attractive to me. Other than that, a flat stomach is also hot to me, and for some reason I find female hands very cute and attractive, but not to the point that I could sexualize it like some people do with feet fetishes. I am not attracted whatsoever to feet and legs, even though I hear people say long female legs are sexy, nope not for me at all, and feet are disgusting to me lol.
     
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  18. IGY

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    Lol, all feet are gross to me. I cannot even tolerate my own! :D
     
  19. blacklabel92

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    i never understood thee fetish. maybe cause i gots sweaty ass ogre feet.
     
  20. PanteriMauzer

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    Because we are men
     
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