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why can't I stop!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Icouldprobablyhelp, Feb 26, 2021.

  1. Icouldprobablyhelp

    Icouldprobablyhelp Fapstronaut

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    I have these goals set in mind but once porn is in mind my thoughts go blank! I don't even want to get to that point anymore because I know theres amazing benefits to obstaining but in the moment fapping just outweighs everything!

    I know it's not worth it but I can't quit I need help
     
  2. Aswin palathingal

    Aswin palathingal Fapstronaut

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    You r not motivated enough..I think that's the only cause..
     
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  3. Icouldprobablyhelp

    Icouldprobablyhelp Fapstronaut

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    I hear you but at the same time I have lots of reasons to not M! but the urge is so strong sometimes I feel like an addict... currently looking for an accountability partner. one thing I can say is that I'm glad they exist.. so many ppl have lost so much behind this type of stuff
     
  4. Aswin palathingal

    Aswin palathingal Fapstronaut

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    I dont really know what an accountability partner is..If you could tell me how that works i will try to help..

    I am not fully out of this addiction, still I think i should remind you that Even with partners you should develop your own will power and stratergies my friend..
     
  5. Aswin palathingal

    Aswin palathingal Fapstronaut

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    I came here only a few months ago..
     
  6. Icouldprobablyhelp

    Icouldprobablyhelp Fapstronaut

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    agreed! an accountability partner is some who checks on your well being I suppose is the best way to put.. or like having a work out partner! someone who pushes and motivates you practically
     
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  7. Evilgenius_10

    Evilgenius_10 Fapstronaut

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    Hi,
    I know what your are going through, i have been there.
    The key to success is knowledge, so before you begin your NOFAP journey read a book YOUR BRAIN ON PORN by Gary Wilson and gather as much knowledge as you can from the forum and YouTube.
    Then decide a date from when you are going to start your journey. The initial few days/weeks are bit difficult but over a period of time it gradually gets easier.
    It worked for me so hope it works for you as well.
    Best of luck.
     
  8. Beingmankind

    Beingmankind Fapstronaut

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    dude , what u said is soo true. before taking action we must have a knowledge abt it.
    your brain on porn is a great source to quit pmo addiction.
    but i dont have the book. i cant pay money for it becoz i am 16 yrs. can i get it from u guys like free pdf of whole book. help me guys.
     
  9. DeeJ4y

    DeeJ4y Fapstronaut

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    It is hard. It will take time. Eventually we will succeed. Keep going and God bless you!
     
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  10. theMotivator

    theMotivator Fapstronaut

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    This is the point, you must learn to be stronger than your urges. Then you become super-human. Urges no more control you, but you control your actions. It's a very high level, which one must really fight to attain.
     
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