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Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by mrhonk1288, May 4, 2019.
when a man does nofap women chase him so hard even though they ignored him before, why is this?
I have not experienced this (I'm a married old guy) but my guess is
He is more confident and
He knows himself more deeply
and both of these are attractive traits in people
Done 6 months hardmode and other 5 months not using porn.
Never experienced a bit of what you talk about...
Probably there's nothing depending on the external changes. The attraction mode he's talking about is due to a related personal change. You know, abstaining from porn and masturbation is not something irrelevant.
They don't respond to nofap! They respond to the confident man who is clearly putting in some kind of hard work to better his life.
Good joke, look how I laugh.
I believe it has something to do with the accumulated energy the man has. Women can pick up on that stuff, even if they don't understand why they are interested.
Ha! I thought you meant the forum!
Pheromones and energy.
To make the whole process even more difficult, that's an obstacle that you will find in your path, if you are truly committed, you will ignore the girls, if not you will fail and have to start all over.
I actually experienced this on two occasions, the 1st was the first two weeks when I started NoFap in 2015, no doubt about it I was getting the looks and everything that some nofappers speak of and this had never happened before, this ended due to a flatline that came in the third week of my streak. The 2nd time was in 2017 when I was on a 120+ streak, I got contacted online by a girl who previously had lost interest in me but now all of a sudden wanted to speak to me, unfortunately the streak came to an end after we sexted (even stranger is that I had asked for dirty pics months before and she never gave it so for her to give it to me while I was on my 120 day streak I found strange and could be more than a coincidence). So yh I think the attraction is real but you have to reach a high stage in the recovery process before you can really experience it.
Of course even people who fap regularly can still attract women so I guess its quite a strange thing why doing Nofap on a long streak can get you attention for some people.
But that's just my own subjective experience, I don't think its complete bs when people say they've attracted someone on a high streak.
Have not experienced this one bit.
Without abstaining from from O (PMO), you won't notice anything.
She knew in her subconcious, that you were saving up semen, so she obviously sent you triggers to release it, so she can feel better again.
but did you try? I mean nofap can reboost but can't do miracles.. you have to add something you too. the guy of the post used to have this girl that obv wasn't attracted by a fapper and unconfident guy, but seeing him more confident makes you more attractive bc they think you're gonna accomplish what you want in life. so nofap is good but if after that you keep on not going out or not talking to girls you can't expect them to run to you. if you try i think you'll be surprised of how much they will be kinder now
Doing retention for the sole purpose of attracting women, while looking out with that needy vibe - that won't work.
In my own case I only got into NoPMO for exactly two reasons: to reboot my brain's dopamine system (fighting depression and anxiety) and stop the habitual sin separating me from God. These effects I already knew from my research from five years ago.
I only remembered and consecutively registered on this site, when other surprising effects of semen retention kicked in unexpectedly. Only then I wanted to tell my story. This is why my forum account registration date is 30 days into my current streak and my first post is in "Success Stories".
The theological perspective is important as well: Stopping to sin improves anybody's life, even if someone doesn't know about sin. But if there is lots of other sin in a certain man's life, going NoPMO might just not be enough to turn things around.
Of course, registering here wasn't only for boasting about "superpowers". After being on a roll for the first 40 days, I have to fight temptation like anybody else and build new healthy habits to reach my goals. And being here helps tremendously with that.
True statement! Especially if you have previously been living in scarcity, it can be very tempting to get in touch with almost any decent-looking woman who seem to respond to your increased chi (or energy) but it is here you have to be careful. Women are natural energy takers (or receivers) and just because a woman is good-looking doesn't automatically mean she will have a good influence on you or your life. If she seem to give off bad-energy vibes, have destructive habits or any kind of attitude or nasty behavior, you do best in just showing her the door.
Luckily, as your time on semen-retention and self-control increase, you will become better and faster at picking up any of these bad vibes and don't waste your time on bad women or people in general.
To not mention the increased confidence, slower and more relaxed body moments, and weakened sense of neediness that also come with it.
I have had that experience
I believe it is because the guy is not acting like a dog at a buffet and chasing them
And maybe just maybe they like a challenge