Why do nice guys finish last ?:(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Daviesmark1, Sep 29, 2015.

  1. Pizzicata

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    I agree, it's not because she's hot, take care of herself and choose an hot strong guy that she is superficial.
    She's hot so she can choose and she fucks the best, the winner, the stronger. She will not have pity for a weak guy. Sad for them. Of course she will pretend that is not true.
    Fuck with a guy for fucks a lot of girls is a turn on but she will not give a pity fuck to the virgin who just want fuck once.
    In my 20' i saw some of my friends fuck like crazy for years with many girls several times a week and saw some others trying but stay sexless during all this time and finally give up for stay at home. Those last have not enough balls to talk to a unknown girl in a club and I think with the testosterone going down with age. They will never have the balls.
     
  2. Daviesmark1

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    I think you may have gone a bit ott with this whole post
     
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  3. Pizzicata

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    yes I know, sorry for that
     
  4. himmelstoss

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    The real question is if masculinity is our natural state, how come we have to fight tooth and nail to restore it? Why would anyone gravitate toward being a sedentary beta male in the first place?
     
  5. Ron B

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    Your post reminds me of this article, which OP could also stand to read: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

    I should read that more often.
     
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  7. himmelstoss

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    pity sex is worse than no sex
     
  8. FullPotential

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    i admit a fact which is true for me, i cannot be simply a friend to girls because once it happened that when a cute girl came to ask about some assignment with my friend i just dissapeared from the room all of a sudden and went to the washroom as we had played cricket and so we were sweating (i had that assignment she was asking) ,i cleaned myself combed my hair washed my face and then went and told her "hey which assignment u want,i have completed it" i gave it to her and she smiled and thanked me,all my friends asked me "oooooo heyyyyy whats going on hmmmm she smiled at u anoop,u have made ur way into her heart with ur assignment" and me to make myself look like a nice guy said"nothing like that people dont misunderstand i am just her friend" all my friends were gigling hearing that,but the main thing was i asked myself i dont do that(wash my face,care about my hygene,comb my hair) when i help a guy and guys can be my friends because i dont want anything in return i only need just that happy feeling i get when i helped him as a fellow human being thats all, but when i helped a girl(she didnt even asked me for my assignment)i want something in return whats that what do i want in return,why did i comb my hair,why did i washed my face and i came to the conclusion that its just not friendship and i am not a nice guy as i want something in return and for some particullar reason i know who i am and i am trying to create a mask which i am not,so i am not a nice homely guy,its what i think i am but if i say i am a nice guy that will be hypocrysy and so from that day i said to myself that i am not a nice guy.
     
  9. WarriorSpirit

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    Heres my final response. Obviously some of you don't get the difference between a nice guy and a decent man probally because some of you are that nice guy, which is fine.
    But badboys and realmen(men with masculine energy inside of them) always get picking priority over nice guys. lets be real and this is from experience. Who is a woman gonna want when you go to the club. the really skinny guy who dosen't work out at all can hardly stand eye contact, does the shy guy thing and is the type who will cook a hot pasta alfredo for her and won't speak his mind or a Army Ranger(Using the SOF community because 90 percent of these guys have A-type personallities) who has something going for him and has that masculine male energy flowing through himself has CONFIDENCE(KEY WORD) and knows how to take control of a situation and isn't afraid to approach a girl who is CHOOSING(eye contact basically giving him the singals to come on over) with his real personallity and not some pick up line he got from the PUA(pick up artist community) or from those lames at SoSimp(Sosuave) where 90 percent of the community over there are straight up virgins.


    Who do you think she want. It's not about being a bad boy, I used that anology because thats just a single archetype out of many masculine male personalities that finish way over nice guys. Hell, decent men finish before nice guys. And then what happens? Oh yea, the niceguys get butthurt and join sosuave or god forbid MGTOW where they become more messed up in the head.

    So simply put. Nice guys(Again not decent MEN) have always and will always finish last don't believe me? Well were just a bunch of dudes talkin so lets hear it from a girl for you non-believers

    Here is a video from a girl who is probally pushing 28-30 by now JennaMarbles. Listen and learn.



     
  10. WarriorSpirit

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    and the video title is obviously sarcasm
     
  11. WarriorSpirit

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    Sorry for the triple post. But also remember this. A girl makes up her general judgement of you within the first four seconds of meeting you. She has already decided who you are in her head before you even noticed her in the club. she noticed you the minute you walked in.
     
  12. himmelstoss

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    I think most of us are but for whatever reason can't catch up to the "bad boys" who got a head start and are more comfortable drawing boundaries.
     
  13. Ron B

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    :) Thanks, man. I had the same reaction when I first read it. It's from when Cracked was good, and David Wong was always the best writer. I need to bookmark it and read it more often.
     
  14. XpzXp

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    Let me twll you my opinion since I was in the same problem as you and I just recently got over with it, I can assure you that being nice guy is ok and many girls like that but, I believe you need to care for yourself also and don't be a sucker. What I mean is: don't do exactly what a gorl say exactly how she say it, for example: you don't have to walk a girl to home (if she live close to you it's ok but if otherwise it's not) another example is that you shouldn't care about others ALL THE TIME, sometimes it's ok to do so, I like to do it but don't make your life miserable and be like a solider that just follow orders. If you can't balance between the two it will take time but nofap should still help you. Search simple pickup on youtube and internet go to their forum people their will be able to assist you much further
     
  15. himmelstoss

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    I get the feeling we're all using different definitions of "nice guy"
     
  16. Pizzicata

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    Never listen advice from a women
     
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  18. himmelstoss

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    Have you ever heard a man say he's an "amazing fucking person?" Maybe elliot rodger but whether he counts as a man is debatable.
     
  19. Daviesmark1

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    I'm not like that at all:L I don't go for the really popular girls at all, I liked one of the girls In my group and we're not exactly popular, I'd say just average. I'm not shallow at all nor am I using them for sex I'm just friends with them... You can be friends with girls without looking for sex you know ahah . I think I'd rather stay friends with them and go out with someone from another group so it wouldn't be so awkward
     
  20. Sir Cranksalot

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    Whoa, this one is epic! For the record, I don't have a problem with big gals. But with an attitude like that, you couldn't pay me enough to sleep with her.
     

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