Why do our partners say we have "a big one" when it's just not true?

I agree that talk can be cheap. You've made me think back to when I said it. Back then I was so happy to be in the relationship and so in love with her that I would just say stuff. I didn't think to myself when this isn't true but I'll say it anyway cause I have no problem lying to this woman. In the literal sense, I don't think anyone can be the most beautiful or the sweetest or the most loving because how can beauty, sweetness or love be measured? I think in a relationship you're testifying to beliefs you have in that particular moment. But maybe telling a woman she's the most beautiful woman in the world isn't the smartest thing to say. idk

 

I get what you mean. I don't think there's anything wrong with saying something like that. That's why I said it's important to communicate, because most people would probably like that, but because of my past experience, I don't like it, personally.

 

There is so much more to intimacy than just size. You are a capable attentive lover. I understand where You are at. I am 2” soft. 5” hard on a good day. Nice thickness but usually orgasm as soon as I try to mount my wife. Very I pleasurable for her. This journey so far (13 days) has given me a new perspective. I am massaging and caressing her. I am focussed on her orgasm not mine. I am avoiding my own release until 90 days. But the attention I have has been redirected into intimacy. Im very excited to see if I can actually stay hard and not cum in 30 seconds once we make love after the 90 is done.

thanks for your post. It takes courage to be that honest