Why do women use nudity and sexual related triggers to get attention from quality men?

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  1. pump20

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    You know what, the females don't have no respect for themselves OK? The reason why because they don't give a shit about posting about themselves showing their big, jiggly, wobbly asses and soles of their feet. As god says, don't ever pay attention to those people. Alright? Now for me, I haven't been on instagram for awhile and I don't even think about going there because I've been following the beautiful ladies with their big asses and soles of their feet. We wish that the instagram shouldn't be existed in the first place. We all know that it will mess up the recovery progress and we all guessed it, back to the old habits of PMO again and causes us to relapse and reset the counter. You brought up a very good question.
     
  2. ShadyPerson

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    Facebook? Ok boomer...

    On a more serious note you are right. Even in social media one can choose not to view the popular attention seeking content. In fact why not get off social media completely? Wouldn't miss out on anything important..
     
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  3. HVL85

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    Just being good looking as a woman can be lucrative for her. You'll certainly have got the edge then if you wanted to become 'popular'. Social media has become big business and you can make money off of it just by showing your body by itself. Even something as shallow interaction between drooling men and her can lead them to believe they somehow stand a chance to get in touch with her (read: have sex with her). They will pay the literal and figurative price for that. I don't use these platforms, but Instagram, Snapchat, even Twitter and obviously more extremes as camming and P have high payouts.
     
  4. Kligor

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    I have nothing against womens,but showing pictures being half naked,showing ass or boobs(In clothes of course,i mean provocative outfit)i don't agree that is ok.I have meet only few womens with character and good in heart,but womens who shows her body attribute to attract someone or to be in attention is miserable.Just my opinion.
     
  5. FellatiousD

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    Because it works. Men will drown these social media profiles with upvotes and donations. Most women don't naturally want to be sluts, but men are most easily attracted by the physical traits of a woman, so they act this way knowing it will get results. I don't blame them at all.
    Sometimes they are, and you have to understand that they have struggles too. Sometimes, women feel that men don't care about their personality and only want easy sex. So they offer sex hoping that the man will "catch feelings" and actually want to have a relationship with her. But if she's too slutty then no one will want a relationship with her either. Can you see? The struggles of women are just as real as our own.

    Don't offer things that you don't think you should give up. I tried that. Buying her things is not a good way to get her to like you. However, if you are willing to give up some of your money to give her nice things, it can be seen as a sign of gratitude and respect. But don't throw money at her that you don't need to spend.

    Sometimes women will offer to pay 50/50 or even more. I've had women willingly pay for some dates that I've been on, and it did not affect the relationship. Of course, when you are the primary earner, you might be expected to spend more. And sometimes, paying for the first date is not about feeding her, but showing that you are willing to provide for her. Good women don't want your money, they want to be valued enough so that you will want to provide for her.

    You're right, that's not a good reason to have a relationship. Don't stay with a woman who uses sex as leverage, and don't ever pay for sex. These are not relationships.

    Women and men are not equal in every way, and you have to understand the differences between the two genders. Until you do that, you will only be confused by women, which you should not be.

    No, it's not justified. If sex is the most important thing in a relationship to you, then you are not ready for a relationship. Stop watching porn.

    Do you really think that men are all slaves to women? Or is that just the way you see it? It sounds like you are a slave to your inaccurate perceptions of the two genders. And possibly to porn and the media.

    It can. And it should.

    It can. And it should.

    It depends on what you think love is. It is not a physical thing, but a concept that humans use to describe a special bond with someone close to you. If love is nothing more than the sum of its traits, then yes, it exists. You should never stop trying to find it, and if you have no one in your life that you love, you can always change that.

    It is easy to generalize the rest of the world, but don't forget to look at yourself. Most people are capable of love, and are willing to give things up for their partner.

    Are you sure? If so, then you're missing out. You need to change the way you think, and the only way to do that is through experience.

    First of all, that's not always true. That's something you need to consider and talk with your partner about. Also, women aren't supposed to chase men. You need to be asking women out if you want results.

    That's also a broad generalization. You can find someone who doesn't care as much about income. Also, you shouldn't expect women to chase you for any reason. You need to be approaching women.

    You believe this is true because you clearly want it to be true to justify your negativity. Stop giving up, and stay off of the incel forums.

    You love to generalize and it isn't healthy.

    That's alright, many people are. You need to start taking some action in your life. No one will feel bad for you if you don't try. Get off the computer.
     
  6. Themadfapper

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    I don't think most guys get chased by women. Guys generally or at least used to do the pursuing. I've seen women fall over themselves for pro athletes or guys who have something they want, but generally, I think it's guys who do the pursuing.
     
  7. lolos

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    All relationships are transactional, not just male-female relationships. Understand this and use it to get what you want, rather than complaining that it is unfair or that things shouldn't be that way. It is nature and it cannot be changed.
     
  8. ShadyPerson

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    That's true. Most of the time men are the ones who initiate things. Especially in the beginning of dating.

    On the other hand if you feel like you are always the one doing everything in a relationship and your partner is just dead weight, you are propably selling yourself short and she might very well either be kinda entitled or not that into you. If a relationship starts to feel like a second job in which you need to be constantly sucking up to your partner, it's not very healthy relationship to begin with and not worth the trouble.

    But is the solution to complain about how all women are evil and doing this? No. Just stop doing it and get out of that relationship. If you don't want a girlfriend who wants to enslave you, don't volunteer to be her slave.
     
  9. Vendettana

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    I think these are the women you hang with, or those you are interested in. Although I do like good looking women, and I watch when they are "overdone" but I would never approach that kind of women, it's not worth it.
     
  10. Hisself

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    Attention is to women what sex is to men. Social media is to women what porn is to men. Women compete for the attention of men whom they consider high value. They will accept validation from males who they consider unattractive but they are really after the attention of high value men. Studies have shown that women during the proliferative phase of their menstrual cycle are more likely to wear heels, wear red, and show more skin. Many things women do are subconscious, read Hormonal by Dr. Martie Haselton she’s an evolutionary psychologist who has done studies on this.
     
  11. ShadyPerson

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    Many things anyone does are subconscious. Most of human psyche is subconscious.
     
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  12. Hisself

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    wow. What a revelation. We’re talking about women though right? That’s what the op brought up. How come every time something is said about a gender someone has to say. mEn Do It ToO or wOmEn Do It ToO¡!¡
     
  13. ShadyPerson

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    If there was a person who didn't know anything about dogs, and I were to tell them that black dogs have tails, would the person assume other dogs have tails too or that it's a specific attribute of black dogs?
     
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  14. Hisself

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    We were talking about women and you say mEn ArE lIkE tHaT tOo. I doubt any humans here are clueless about humans
     
  15. ShadyPerson

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    If humans are so smart about humans that it's obvious that humans do a lot of shit subconsciously, why'd you bring up the fact that women do a lot of shit subconsciously?
     
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  16. Hisself

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    Women are more likely to present themselves in specific ways during ovulation. That’s all I’m saying. Men don’t have menstrual cycles. There’s no subconscious behavior that men do at different points during their cycle because they don’t have one. I’m talking about female behavior throughout their menstrual cycle, why in the world would you bring up a “men are like that too” argument when I’m talking about menstrual cycles.
     
  17. UnyieldingAntiHero

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    Aah. Another thread I can blissfully ignore.
     
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  18. ShadyPerson

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    The quote to which I answered wasn't about menstrual cycles, but generally about women doing things subconsciously. At least that's how you worded it. The reason why I saw it relevant to bring up that that doesn't apply merely to women was that a person that doesn't understand human psychology enough to know that applies to men too might think it's an attribute specific only to women. Since there seems to be a lot of confusion about these kinds of things in this thread, I saw it necessary to point out this so that no misunderstandings would happen.
     
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  19. Hisself

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    Use context dude, the previous sentence is me explaining subconscious things women do during ovulation and the SAME sentence you are referring to includes me referencing the book Hormonal by Dr. Martie Haselton. Now please make your point and list specifically what men do that is subconscious regarding their hormones every month.
     
  20. ShadyPerson

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    In fact I do recall hearing that men too have monthly hormonal cycles, although not as strong as women do. Wether that's true or not I do not know, but that's besides the point, because despite your attempts to strawman me, I never stated that men's subconscious behaviout would have anything to do with hormones or months.

    Yes, I see you implied that you were talking about subconscious behaviour that is related to menstrual cycles, but you left room for misunderstanding. I fixed that because I though that in the wider context of the whole thread it was possible, if not propable, that someone would use that space and misunderstand your message. I don't see why that makes you so upset.
     
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