Why Does My Wife Only Want Sex This Way?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Trynagetbetter, Jan 2, 2019.

  1. Trynagetbetter

    Trynagetbetter Fapstronaut

    I don't think you're off the mark. I agree completely. She has found something that works and I was hoping a woman would chime in with her thoughts on WHY THIS WAY. What I'm learning is that there is a reason and it works for her and I should be more focused on understanding why (not changing it). I need to meditate on the betrayal piece (I did think of the "it takes her time to connect emotionally and feel comfortable" part). And again, got to push past the uncomfortable part of being vulnerable. She HATES that. Thanks, Kenzi.
  2. Trynagetbetter

    Trynagetbetter Fapstronaut

    Yes it does. Courting and meeting her needs is the priority. The rest follows. Easier said than done, but it needs to be said AND I need to get it done.
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  3. Trynagetbetter

    Trynagetbetter Fapstronaut

    Now that is downright encouraging, man! I'm working on being more positive and motivated. I feel in a bit of a motivation slump right now, but I'm trying to pick it up.
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  4. Trynagetbetter

    Trynagetbetter Fapstronaut

    Great idea!
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  5. The Wrestler

    The Wrestler Fapstronaut

    Dunno - you asked her? What does she think of all you wrote here?

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