why does nobody loves me

You have to become interesting. Ask yourself what people are interesting to you and why. Most common thing is they are funny, low drama, confident (just good social skills) or they are really good at something (like REALLY good).
You are already on good track. You quit porn and smoking and started to go to the gym. You have the potential and you are young. You can be much more than you think you can be.

 

Easy bro. Shit gets tough but you're still making it. Gotta get out of the self-loathing pity party and rise up. You can't fix everything all at once--that's movie/tv shit. One thing at a time. Focus on one thing and one thing only then start To knock out the other stuff. Take a day and relax. Get outside take a long walk and clear your head. Call up mom or dad or a relative or a close friend and just talk doesn't have to be about anything--just check in on them.

 

Suicide is not the answer to this. Trust me when I say that I’m in a very similar dark place right now. I wake up every day asking myself what’s the point to all this and observing all the superficial friendships that I have. So I know the pain your feeling is real and how hopeless things appear to be. Things will get better, your perspective will change and at some point we both will feel happiness again. It may look bleek, but stay and fight because your worth it.

 

Look pal, if you pity yourself then everyone will pity you and nobody will love you for it. You got to make peace with yourself. You have to express value in order to gather people around you. Focus on your life, try to make best out of it. You say that you do sports, you quit smoking and pornography. Praise yourself for that you are strong and you have strong will. If you think that way, you will feel good about yourself and you become more confident. Then without knowing, you will express value and draw people towards you. If you love yourself then the other people will more likely love you. So, stay strong bro..

 

The best solution to receive love from others, is to be a true SOURCE of love yourself.

Not in a fake manipulative way (e.g. "I'll do this so you'll love me back") but in an honest way, almost not giving a crap about what others think of you and just making others' lives better, for the sake of it.

How ironic.

 

Life isn't worth the company of those who don't respect you. You're not alone in your loneliness - remember that.

 

Are you sure you mean "everybody" and not Instagram/Snapchat THOTs?

 

Be a warrior of life, fight till the bitter end to achieve happiness even if you fail, like a kamikaze!
Or be a coward, accept defeat and drown in misery.
I'm also suffering from a loveless heart but I refuse to give up. I wish you good luck

 

if your an atheist, and there is no God... how can you blame God may I ask?

 

He's trying to illustrate his desperation, that even though he is an atheist, he has become so desperate and unhappy that he wanted to blame god- essentially he is illustrating how "out of his mind" he has become.

 

@idkhtfly

I know life can be scary and really overwhelming at times and it sounds like you have been through a lot in a short space of time, but I can guarantee you that you are more important to some people out their than you realise, social media is not a good way of gauging if people care for you- you will have some family and friends who love you and would miss you!! Hurting yourself is not the answer- please talk to someone- there are many agencies that you can contact that can provide support and listen to you- for instance in the UK you can speak to the Samaritans- https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us but if you are somewhere else there will be similar agencies that can help you.

You say you have tried anti depressants- which implies you have seen a doctor- did they offer any counselling or therapy? How long did you try the medication before deciding they did not work? Tak to your Doctor again- perhaps a different medication could be more helpful.

Break up's are hard- I broke up with my bf 2 months ago and I was with him for 5 and half years!! So I know it's painful but try to recognise your own self worth and not rely on another person to make you feel lie you have self worth.

Please talk to someone!!!

 

Everyone is interesting to someone, having a mental illness or being suicidal doesn't just occur because you have a lack of hobbies that could potentially appeal to another person- you have to deal with your inward issues first and get some self worth.

 

sounds like he's just passing blame to me.

 

There is no blame. If someone is mentally unwell, they have done nothing wrong, they need help not blame.

 

my opinion.

 

What's your opinion? That he is trying to pass blame for his mental health issues. If so that literally makes no sense and your opinion on why he has mental health issues is hardly relevant- we should be supporting members of the community who are struggling.

 

this is not about us. let it go.

 

The only way to change your life, is to believe in yourself and love yourself. Be ok with solitude, once you become confident, people will be drawn to you. There's nothing wrong with you right now, you've achieved so much, you should take it easy on yourself and be proud of yourself. & about religion, maybe research what you think is the true description of God.