Why femdom

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by henry3526, Mar 11, 2019.

  1. henry3526

    henry3526 Fapstronaut

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    It seems to me that a lot of people on here get into femdom at some point on their porn journey and have trouble letting go. Why is it that literally everyone seems to turn to femdom? Is everyone hard wired to want to be dominated, or is it just a natural progression that everyone seems to take? Just curious.

    For me I've been massively into bdsm long before I explored the horrible world of porn, so femdom was the obvious choice for porn, but I'm guessing most people were truly vanilla and then 'turned'.

    What are your thoughts?
     
  2. justapadawan

    justapadawan Fapstronaut

    Well, probably it is just a natural progression, not exactly on femdom, but any type of "extreme" porn.

    We get overstimuated with the novelty of porn. Seeing a naked woman was enough to make us horny. After a while, we resort to "vanilla" sex, and when that fails to arouse us the way it did before, we try new things (bdsm, femdom, cuckold, tranny, you name it, just search this forum and you will find stories regarding guys who end up hooked in one type of extreme porn or another.

    It probably works like drugs. At first you can get wasted with 3 or 4 beers, and after your brain adapts to it, you will need stronger booze to achieeve the same (or even inferior) effect.
     
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  3. Rehab101

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    I dunno. Extreme stuff is not even sexy and is gross for me imo. Those femdomb tyranny, and gay p usually turn me off so bad and saved me from a relapse when I was browsing videos.
     
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  4. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    The whole cycle of porn addiction is based on fear, guilt and regret. Femdom feeds off this guilt and makes the cycle worse and worse.
     
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  5. AVALANCHE

    AVALANCHE Fapstronaut

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    wish i was the same like you :c
     
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    ZenAF Fapstronaut

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  7. g2stop

    g2stop Fapstronaut

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    Porn turns people into objects, bdsm turns people into slaves, these are very similar
     
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  8. fedmom

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    For anyone with this fetish the cause is anxiety and depression. To cure it you need to increase serotonin levels and I have a thread in my profile for how this can be done naturally.
     

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