Why i am more attracted to older women?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by helloo1221, Sep 21, 2021.

  1. helloo1221

    helloo1221 Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys i am 21 years old,i am more attracted to older women for some reason,as we say it in porn language MILFS . Is this because of porn or is this the way i am.Older women look more like women and not like girls that are still growing
     
  2. AuwL0ng

    AuwL0ng Fapstronaut

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    How interesting. I'm also 21 and I'm mostly attracted to older women.
    Just shows you that you're never alone.
    I wouldn't call my case severe, but I can count three times that I've been more attracted to a mother than her daughter.
    Don't fool yourself because it is definitely wrong to go out with and marry much older women or vice versa. Of course one can't do too much about it if you're attracted to them.
    The three cases I've found the mother much more attractive than their daughters are a case of where the mother is much more beautiful than their daughters. I'm friends with a 39 y/o woman, but I must stop the friendship soon. I've planned on doing it today, because its really not gonna work. I'm very attracted to her and I'm scared she'll mess up my path with NoFap due to the fact that she causes arousal in me. Something I definitely should not have!
    So don't throw fuel onto the fire. Just don't go that route if you want my opinion.
    We're the same age, we "speak the same language", figuratively. So we understand what we're going through.
    To conclude I'll just reply on the last part of your writing where you talk about girls that are still growing. Girls stop growing around the age of 16 to 18. As 21 year olds we're anyway not supposed to be romantically involved with girls younger than 18. That's wrong and in many countries also illegal.
    To speak for myself I've never been in a romantic relationship so I can't say much about it, but I never believed in romantic relationships with big age gaps.
    Also be mindful that the "age gap" between an 18 and 21 year old is technically much much larger than the age gap between e.g. 40 and 43. Think about it. The development in young people happen much faster than with middle aged people. That's why in my eyes a romantic relationship between e.g. a 40 and a 50 year old is not a big deal, but a romantic relationship between a 21 and a 40 year old person doesn't do it in my view.
    So the two of us and whoever else is in the same situation should just get past this period in our lives.
     
  3. What is up

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    It's always better to date older women
    •less drama so less headache
    • Better understanding
    •They are straight to the point
    •they do not seek a lot of attention and validations from guys like young girls
    •They're less likely to get pregnant and more likely to buy us an xbox❣️
     
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  4. helloo1221

    helloo1221 Fapstronaut

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    i will not get in a relashionship with a women much older than me,we do what our values are.I don't think this is a problem i have seen many moms that are much more beautiful than their daughters,that doesn't mean that there is something wrong with us,beauty has nothing to do with age.
     
  5. helloo1221

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    plus i am a serious guy so i think i can match better with an old woman that is more serious than a little girl
     
  6. AuwL0ng

    AuwL0ng Fapstronaut

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    I don't want anything to do with women anymore anyway, so it doesn't make any difference to me. But good luck on your journey ahead.
     
  7. Odiebear

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    You're into older women because you are. There isn't always a need to over analyze every aspect of our psyche. Sometimes you just are, and that's okay!
     
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  8. helloo1221

    helloo1221 Fapstronaut

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    yea man this is very true we dont have to analyze everything
     
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  9. ProminentPosterior

    ProminentPosterior Fapstronaut

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    Big brain moment: if a girl has a hot mom, then in 20 years’ time she will be the hot mom.

    Invest.
     
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  10. AuwL0ng

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    I guess we'll have to wait 20 years to see if its true. LOL.
     

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