Why I'm done trying to be "man enough".. [WATCH IT!]

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by D-Mystifier, Jan 18, 2018.

  1. D-Mystifier

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    Hey guys,

    A big part of my big struggle with porn is the way it has affected the way I view women, objectifying them and believed I hold a certain level of power over them.. From what I have seen on the forum this should resonate with many of you. So when I watched this video last night I became really inspired to reach out and apologize to women I have wronged in the past, and to reach out to some of 'my boys' to gather their opinions on the video as well. Here are some quotes that really hit home for me;

    I guess I'm on a new path of feminism and honestly, I'm fucking fired up about it!! It's 2018, time to wake the fuck up.
     
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    Our societies have too many gender specific norms and roles that are influenced and taught. I honestly hate it, like how makeup is pushed etc. Etc.
    I think that liberating these cultural norms is great, but just like have norms has it's extremes, so does the opposite end. I like a balanced approach :D, but yeah, I basically agree with you.
     
  3. Mike_July_2017

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    This is really gay shit.

    Namely a good looking, build, actor gaining money and fame by telling men to be weak and effeminate. Please do not believe that guy.

    There is a reason men are educated to be strong and emotionless - because life is really that hard. And the same women who were cheering and texting that muscular actor would not give him a second look if he were not pretty, strong or popular.

    Do not fool yourself that it is ok to be weak and a slave to emotions. You can only suffer because of that. And life is really hard, whatever you wish to achieve you need strength and sacrifice.
     
  4. This is really good shit.

    Namely a person telling people to put away their masks. Please believe that guy.

    There is a reason men are educated to be strong and emotionless - because fuck being true to yourself, that's why. People only cheer for you when you look good, even though that is demonstrably false.

    Do not fool yourself that it is ok to have no emotions. It only makes you a piece of shit. You can only achieve things in life by trying to appear strong and keeping everybody at arms-length and pushing them away in the end.

    Men are supposed to be strong and emotionless and women are fucking bitches that only cheer for muscular actors.
    I'm not sexist, I promise. Read more about it on my PUA blog.
     
  5. 5speed

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    There are times you must be a man and evolution has prepared us for it, not that long ago people had to hunt to survive and eat and feed the families, build shelter with wood they had to cut, many of us have fought in recent wars and that will make you a man, you don't have to be tough by somebody standards but since you have been born as a male learn what pride, honor and dedication means. Screw this propaganda, society still needs tough males!
     
  6. I wonder how long it will take you to realize feminism will increase suffering for women.

    Women are equal. Not superior.
     
  7. No one said women are superior ?

    This is a straw man argument.

    I agree that there are plenty radical feminists who think that and are actively hating men. Does not make the actual feminism wrong.
    As you already stated, women are equal. Not superior. Men are equal. Not superior.
     
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  8. You're right, radical feminism is the issue. Unfortunately, there is no defining line between the normal and the extremes.

    Not even participants know the difference.
     
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  9. Mike_July_2017

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    False. Women are inferion in many situations, and superior in others. What would equal even mean ? Can a woman get another woman pregnant - that is what equal would mean.
     
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    And that's why he is giving a TED talk and you are writing a forum post?
     
  12. Mike_July_2017

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    Precisely. He is telling you what you want to hear = that you should be weak and you should do no effort, and that with more feminism you will receive love and appreciation for nothing. Weak deluded men pay for this drug he is selling, namely reassurance from their own feelings of guilt and lack of self worth.

    I tell the truth. This is why nobody pays me, as it is an unpleasant truth that people do not want to hear.
     
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    OMG. I'm sorry but this is looking like an excuse to continue being a weak man without feeling bad about it. You're denying who you are and also biology because of a shit ideology, fuck feminism. To see women as objects has nothing to do with being a man, it has to do with the personality of the person, do not blame men as a whole just because you have a violent fetish.
     
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    Precisely this. With some room for debating what a weak man and strong man are, everyone is free to have his own believes on that.

    But feminism, as this is what the video is pushing, is simply masked anger and hate towards men. To be honest I could not watch anymore after that jerk started yelling about women that were raped.

    He blamed random young men about some unmentioned raped women. He did not bother to mention that statistically most rape victims are men(in prisons). He did not bother to mention that more than 50% of women rape accusations are false, and women are not usually punished for false rape testimonies. He did not bother to mention that women have more legal rights than men and more money is given to them as a group, even though men pay the vast majority of taxes. He did not bother to mention that feminists leaders gained fortunes and political power by spreading the lie that women earn less than men, and kept spreading this blatant lie even after it was debunked a thousand times. He also did not bother to mention about feminist scientists fined for faking data theirs studies were based upon - on multiple occasions.

    Feminism, as an organization, is making a lot of money for their leaders. And this buffed, good looking, actor guy wants to gain something out of it. His speech is basically telling women that average men are wrong and somehow broken.

    Because they aspire to better themselves and assume responsibility for their actions - young men on average are a huge threat to feminists. Feminism makes money by telling women
    it is never their fault, that they are historical victims who deserve compensation and that there is this huge conspiracy against women organized by men. If women started to be responsible, to work hard to achieve their goals, to accept reality for what it is, to be competitive and fair - feminism would loose its followers. This is why normal young men are a threat to them.
     
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