Why is it so hard?!!
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Jarl Ulfric
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these days will pass bro, stay strong
I think you identified your problem. You have not been no PMO for 9 days if you are still peeking at P. No means no. If you stop feeding your brain P, the cravings for PMO will slowly fade. If you keep feeding it even a tiny amount, its appetite for PMO will remain insatiable.
Stop peeking.
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This is the good advice
Peeking means your not actually recovering. Your still looking at P, putting toxic energy in your brain
Mr. Kruger
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The first month is always the most difficult. You'll notice it gets much easier in the second month.
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Peaking has ruined me more times than I care to count. Truly. I made a huge long post about how peaking and edging threw me into a self denial & spin that made my addiction worse than if I would have just fapped & got it done with. Truly watch out for this man it can lead down a path to cycles of binging/abstinence that is thee worst thing for your brain
stands to reason
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It's well beyond just being hard ... it is impossible to be made whole using just human strength (willpower.) Find out why.
stands to reason
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This sheepdog /
pleads with you, come back to the fold, and internalize, and exercise (spiritually) daily The 4 RULES to End @NamaClature14's Sexual Sin.
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This sheepdog /
I’m still in the fold brother, nearing one month mark now
thanks for looking out!
RRSS
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Hey there, I had to reset since I was peeking, but no peeking for me since yesterday, thanks for support;
More often than not i gotta just shut my brain and say 'no' to my 'dirty' thoughts rather than having motivation to do it...
But I really wish it'd be bit more easier, I'm a ticking bomb...
More often than not i gotta just shut my brain and say 'no' to my 'dirty' thoughts rather than having motivation to do it...
But I really wish it'd be bit more easier, I'm a ticking bomb...
It isn't easy, and that's the truth. There is a reason I say this is the fight of your life. If it was easy, most everyone would quit, I imagine.
Doesn't matter. Easy or hard, it's what we must do. And so do it we shall!
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Read about "extinction burst"
RRSS
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Good evening all my brothers in struggle! Just a quick reflection, how funny that people think that porn and masturbation is only a problem of sleazy, specky greased-hair geeks (i don't mean to offend anyone)?!! It can happen to all of us, rich or poor, stupid or clever... Thankyou guys, no matter who you are, we're in this together.
RRSS
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Hi brothers in arms; that was my worst day since I started this journey, horrible, I've been walking all day angry, touchy, depressed, sad... I'm guessing, it's like setting myself free from a prison; yea, it's promising the new life on the other side, but before you get there, you need to make enormous effort, you gotta leave 'safety' of prison cell, cut the bars, make a jump over the fence, run like mad, being shot at by the guards etc. I cannot wait for that new light, please, let it happen soon, I'm dying here...
DayOne44
Fapstronaut
I identify with this.
My little "peaks" have ended up lasting for hours.
The problem with my porn viewing is that, unlike everything else I do, searching porn has no limits.
Whereas, regular masturbation would be done in 15 minutes or less.
Just a peak will draw me in and swallow me.
Once I get drawn into porn, I can't get out.
That is my experience.
It tells me porn is a problem.
I don't believe in most absolute rules.
Porn, for me, is like cocaine or heroin to a drug addict.
I can't have any of it. Porn always destroys me.
If anything, that is one thing about which I must be absolute.