Why is this happening? Help please :(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mobius, Oct 28, 2017.

  1. Mobius

    Mobius Fapstronaut

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    How long does it take to rewire your brain with real sex from porn?
    Last month i got a girlfriend and weve been having sex probably 4 times a week and it still takes me several minutes at least to O and my sensetivity seems limited.. Ive been on a nofap streak for well over 180 days..
    Earlier today i accidentally looked at porn and edged a little to it- i stopped myself fast (and now im having panic attacks because i edged), which again i haven't done in a very long time and i noticed it felt amazing and took only 10 seconds to edge.. Why is this? Am i broken??
     
  2. MLMVSS

    MLMVSS Fapstronaut

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    You should just reboot; don't focus on a counter as a destination, but as a guide. Try 30 days and see how you feel after. If that's not enough, then try 60, 90, 120 or longer.
     
  3. Mobius

    Mobius Fapstronaut

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    Like i said, i already did 180 days+ :/
     
  4. Jimmy5555

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    Several minutes to O with someone seems normal. I would expect at least a few minutes or longer :)

    In terms of sensitivity it may take time but keep away from porn and edging and masturbation. Also other factors such as mood, stress etc can play a part.
     
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  5. HatePorn

    HatePorn Fapstronaut

    I dont get it.....what is exactly rewire for you?
     
  6. Mobius

    Mobius Fapstronaut

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    That makes me feel a bit better.. I guess i just gotta keep waiting it out and keep rewiring through real sex
     
  7. Mobius

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    Well considering i already completed the regular nofap challenge, the only thing i can think of that will further the rewiring is real sex