WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? I DONT GET IT!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quaresma, Mar 6, 2018.

  1. Quaresma

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    Guys can you help me? I dont get it..

    Im now on 3,5 month of no PMO! I didnt watched porn and didn't masturbated and also didnt orgasmed with masturbation!!

    Im proud of my self! But when i sometimes talk with women about all day things like work, sport or something, I sometimes get precum. I dont know why.. i dont have a erection or something, but some precum come out? Why is this happening? Is it positive?

    Please help me!
    Thanks!!
     
  2. Deadpool.420

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    Well thats a sign of penis weakness but it shouldnt be a problem. Have u been edging? Watching porn without MO?
    If not then this could be due to lack of physical exercise.. if u start working out then i think it would cure the problem
     
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  3. Quaresma

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    Noo men, as i said i didnt watch porn and also didnt masturbate and didnt have orgasms with pmo for 3,5 month..

    What do you mean by penis weaknes and lack of excercise??

    Thanks!
     
  4. Deadpool.420

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    Maybe u are on a verge to get a wet dream. Lack of exercise causes this problem so u need to make core muscles stronger. I think kegel exercises would make the problem much better..
    In short just dont stay lazy, go out.. go for jogging, gym or whatever helps u feel good just dont sit idle
     
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    Thanks!
     
  6. Quaresma

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    Someone else guys?
     
  7. NMIE

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    I know it but wouldnt call it a problem... u r abstaining=u r horny. Girl is hot=u get horny even more... and we use to precum a bit once we get horny dont we? Dont forget that we are all a bit different even in this case... i wouldnt care about this kind of thing if its just a lil drop or something....

    I think u should set your mind to an important things - u r clean for pretty long time, ur making progress... who really cares about lil something in your pants? I dont think its positive, i dont think its negative, i just thing it happens and is not important at all....
     
  8. Gooding

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    This happens to me even when I am with a girl hugging and kissing. My understanding is it is PIED. My recovery is NOT complete yet. I am aroused hence precum. But PIED hinders erection. Since I wake up in the middle of night and morning with strong erections I dont worry about it. Physically my thing is good. I need to just stick to my reboot until recovery is complete.

    Hope that answers your question.
     
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  9. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro!
     
  10. Quaresma

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    Thanks men!
     
  11. Quaresma

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    More advice guys?
     
  12. Gmork

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    I don't think you have anything to worry about @Quaresma
    I have always had a similar thing.
    It's not a problem.
    Some guys do that.
    It's just your body telling you that everything is working.
    Don't worry.
     
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  13. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro!
     
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    Someone else guys?
     
  15. Roady

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    Porn is very VERY damaging to our system. It's not only physical. It's emotional, intellectual, spiritual. Porn touches every part of our being right?
    If you watch porn for years, you really confuses your own brain. And your brain is just doing what you tell it to do.
    For years you force yourself to become horny and your body responded accordingly. The body has been in a state of constant "producing of arousal" (and so: restart the sexual system again and again and again).
    Once you decided to quit porn, but that's the first decision.
    Your brain is heavily programmed to react on certain impulses. When such an impulse is received, it just do what it is told to do: Send signals to the sexual system, send blood to the penis, produce prostate liquid etc etc.

    Than you see a nice girl. The brain immediately responds like it did for years.
    Blood to penis, make liquid, etc etc.

    You are just programmed to react this way. And that need to be changed.
    Stay away from porn is the very first thing to do.
    The longer you stay away and do normal things, the more you reprogram your brain to act different in the same situation.

    Hope this makes any sense to you.
     
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  16. Quaresma

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    Thanks verry much bro! This is verry good advice! Except quitting porno, what else should help??
    Thanks men!
     
  17. Roady

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    Relax
    Do normal things
    Walk in nature (very important)
    Care about pets, plants, people
    Pray for peace
    Take time for the process
    Leave porn (very important).
    Sing
    Write
    Talk with others (express feelings = taking the inner pressure away)
    Be creative to find your own solution and way :)
     
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  18. Quaresma

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    Thank you verry much men! Im now on 3,5 month.. how long will it take you think??
     
  19. Roady

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    In 3,5 month you should see some changes.
    However, it's not really important. I take it day by day, focus more and more on the other things in life.
    You should do the same. Don't stare on "the number" but focus on other things. But, day by day.
     
  20. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro! I indeed see some changes.
    1. I see porn as something disgusting
    2. Masturbation seems like something not normal to me
    3. I can control my urges, if im horny i dont feel the urge to watch porn and masturbate
    4. I sleep better
    5. Less anxiety
    6. At the moment i still see women as a object, but less then first.. how can i fix thiss you think?

    Thanks a lott!
     
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