WHY IS TRANS PORN SO ADDICTIVE??

Trans p is one of the worst. Because i know many stories of people go to trans when they are heterosexual, but think they re bisexual due to trans p. Pay attention it can become worst than just watching a video. I suggest you to do research on the mechanism of p in general and trans p

 

Brother you need to stay strong.Never watch it again.Its like a trap but you can get out.Please never watch again and you will be okay soon.

 

Ngl, I used to watch it a lot, I even had an erotic dream of it this morning but it passed.

 

I won't try sounding politically correct.
With all due respect to LGBT community, all kind of act involved in an intercourse other than those which are essential to reproduction (i.e. ejaculation) are deviations from normal behavior. The foreplay evolved as evolutionary need for procreation, making intercourse more fun so that species may be attracted on to it. But even that has a limit. Then, if any of those go beyond a limit they are mere PERVERSIONS. So be aware that you're dealing with one. But don't panic you're not the only one dealing with the crap. On this forum, every one has deviated from normalcy in their own style and obviously the key perpetrator has been - various kinds of stimulants. This is lock-down time, distance yourself from all things that may stimulate you - be it hoardings on street, magazines ( even so-called news/business magazine are filled with stuff that's intentionally placed to excite you), crappy shows on TV, use mobile phone & laptop only when necessary.
Be aware that you been consuming absolute bullshit. The day you find no excitement to watch those stuff, no enjoyment in scrolling down through that is the day you are free.

 

Well, I just told myself that it's wrong to do so and honestly when I relapse, I go back to a similar genre to it but other than that, I mostly liked straight stuff. Because I told myself that it's wrong to think of these things and this morning wasn't that much of a challenge thankfully, I started creating a tolerance on myself and became stronger as a person. Trying to do the right thing, most of all. This isn't really helpful and I'm sorry about that but it works for me.

 

Also, I took a shower after I woke up because I had to go pray real quick. So basically, quick actions and being busy in them, stops your focus on these things and helps you overcome them.

 

Anytime bro. Good luck overcoming your addiction.

 

No my friend no point of being ashamed. Just accept things as they are. When you cultivate something be it poison or nectar it just pays back what you sowed. No point of getting guilt-trapped or remorseful, just ask few question DEEPLY, VERY DEEPLY -
1. Is it important for me to get back to same old habits?
2. Why do i feel bad after i ejaculate? A celebrity once said - "As soon as i cum, i come back to my senses". So ask why am i in tension in the first place?
3. Will there harm it would be if i don't ejaculate or is it only my feelings that push me?

 

You can't survive for too long like this. It's better you stop soon. Feel free to message me if you need any help. And for that phone issue, make sure before you pick your phone to use, you should jave a purpose in mind as to why are you using it. Try hard and stay strong.

 

I would recommend you to use meditation as a tool to go within yourself and observe all the sensations that you are going through. Understand, that what you are feeling with your body is completely natural, how could it be not natural if it exists in the nature? Stop fighting it, because fighting it would mean to fight the nature of yourself. Accept it, accept it as it is, a sensation, that's all. Remember, that nobody can harm your soul and mind unless you let it within yourself, meditate on these thoughts and don't let bodily sensations get control of your soul. Your reality is your own perception, your mind is stronger than you think it is.

 

I'm also a novice on meditation and this enlightenment of mine came to me this morning after reading Marcus Aurelius - Meditations and wanted to share these ideas with you. To my understanding there are several ways you can use this:

- You can sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and try to observe everything that is happening within yourself. The important thing is to observe and not attach yourself to those feelings. Then ask questions to yourself, why do feel that way, is it important to you. Then with the self observation will come clarity and with clarity you will be free.
- Second way you can use this is visualization. Whenever you feel the urge, you should close your eyes and visualize the whole process of your relapse and how it makes you feel afterwards, visualize how it would make people who are close to you feel if they knew you do this. Then, shift those thoughts to the positive ones, to your future best version of yourself, to your future self who beat all of his addictions and got his life in order. Feel the success of that potential, feel how it would make other people around you fell, feel how much good in the world you could do.

I would still recommend to do your own research on meditation, because it is a wide topic, but you could start with these tips