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WHY IS TRANS PORN SO ADDICTIVE??

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by TronPie, Jul 17, 2020.

  1. That's actually a very accurate description of one of the reasons why trans women are alluring. Well said.

    And of course, there's nothing wrong with liking trans women, but jerking off to trans porn in unhealthy amounts is another question.
     
  2. Upwards2020

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    I think it's addictive because when we see it our brains don't know what to do , we see a women as the main but with different gentials , it's like watching porn for the first time . Bits something doesn't quite fit. Alot of the arousal is actually anxiety . Its fucked up . It's a big trick on your brain. Eventually all will be clear . The novelty will wear off and you'll see it more and more for what it is.

    Fortunately I was never recieving in my mind fuck that . Some dudes see transwomen as that weird fantasy , and our an outlet for there raw sexual dominance, because they don't give a fuck about the trans . About there feelings etc,

    It's a fucked up thing.
    I watched normal porn for 18 years and eventually started getting bored . Found trans disgusted at firsted but watches it more and more . A girl fucking another girl with her own cock . Things you've never seen before that are weirdly a turn on yet there's something gross that doesn't feel right .

    Before you know it your watch cams while some freak who looks like a really hot girl says she wants your load in her mouth . Always on silent never volume that shit always killed it .the voice fucking hell .

    I've just watched too much porn and this was like something new. You kind of pick and choose what you like about it . But underneath we all know something's very wrong .

    If you have a high sex drive and watches alot of porn , this is just something new to mess around with until you eventually work your way through it. And realise it's gay as fuck .

    I just liked telling transgendered person's I'm going to fire my 8.5 inch I'm her mouth and watch her lap it up . It's fucked up I know. But we're sexual deviants.

    We need holy water or a goddamn exorcism .

    Eventually the novelty wears off . I find it very difficult to not not see the reality , no matter how stimulating the fantasy was, a chick with a dick who can't get enough .

    When you see the reality keep it there . It's a dude . It's totally fucked how are brains work and can be hyjacked like that. Except our brains are smart enough , because as I said it knows you know, except there's a point it takes times to not see some weird fantasy . But you will see the wood for the trees.

    So whatever you do if you watch it . Stop . Don't worry about hocd etc. Your probably not gay . It's just the brains wrestling with it all trying to work out wtf you are at. Whatever you do do not go fuck a transgendered person . Especially do not let a transgendered person fuck you. Jesus .

    I watched ts porn for a few months it was addictive. Now I'm bored of it like others . Except now I see more and more of the reality and it's difficult not to.

    Best thing to do is just quit watching it.or get it out of your system
     
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  3. Wave tamer

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    Hi, don’t stress yourself too much bro your addiction just escalated like thousands/ millions of other men. You’ve decided to do something about it because you know you’re worth so much more than this crap. You’re not gay so don’t feel bad that just makes the addiction thrive on your shame. Recovery is tough but you’re in the best place. Message me whenever let’s fight this battle together. I would advise you get porn blockers on your devices and throw away any thing related. Try and get an accountability partner. Every morning post 5 things you’re great full for and every evening at a set time check in. Plenty of planning of interesting hobbies and healthy self soothes to rewire your brain back to normal. You’d over used porn and needed something more stimulating. Then something taboo and messed up has pulled you in. It’s designed by psychologists and a multi billion dollar industry to get you hooked. I found that the drink would make me loose control and end up relapsing a lot. I gave up pot years ago so not an expert on that mixed with porn. The fact we feel the need to escape our reality with drink, weed and sex shows there are some underline issues that need work on. (Sorry if I sound lecturey) I’ve been battling this for a while and have learnt quite a lot about it and it would be nice help someone else. One day at a time and be kind to yourself life’s f#*king hard dude, recovery pushes us to be the best version of ourselves and deal with our traumas :)
     
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    Stop this explicit language here, as it might trigger people!
     
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  5. TimeToQuitNow

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    All porn is. That one is just your favorite flavor
     
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  6. Upwards2020

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    Porn and phycologists how fucked up wonder what these fuckers have to say and conjure up lol
     
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  7. cadia guardsman

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    Before nofap i never watched ts porn but unfortunaly lattely i watched a bit and my most recent relapses are to that shit....i blame on my way of PMO because i always PMO the fastest way possible so that i get the O , i dont know why but that was always my way of PMOing , since the begging looks like i only like the O part ...and i dont know why but with ts porn i get aroused very quickly and O very quickly , at the same time i feel disgusted and with the want to throw up so its a mix of big arrousel and disguisting want to throw up ... it sucks because some ts look like women with a different part but its still disgusting , i only PMO to the most "normal" parts and i cant see the other parts , but its a big shit because of that i feel more guilty after , than if it was with regular porn
    Also on a dating site , some ts contacted me and they really looked as women , started compliments to my body , and it started on sexting , that shit aroused me and got me even more into fapping only to that shit, i even got the toughts of fucking one , but i wont to that , i am a good looking men , i can atracct women quite easily (thats why i unfoetunally also atracct ts )
    and this made a retrocess on my rebooting fighting but im still fighting and i will overcome this shit
     
  8. SparkySub

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    Honestly I've struggled with Trans Porn too. Its really addicting and its basically lead me on to start talking to actual trans girls on dating apps. Remember, Trans Porn is made for straight men and the majority of men who watch it are Heterosexual males, some of whom are lead to believe they are bisexual, when in reality its a porn induced fetish.
     
  9. Upwards2020

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    I think this happens through escalation. Then trying to pmo through the fastest or better choice of words the easiest. In your mind you know a trans would probably beg for your dick . Theoretically . Porn is obviously visual but is mainly fantasy. So watching this shit as dumb and reptilian we are and bored with porn it's an easy step to take because in your mind it's like yea this "girl" is a guarantee . That's porn is overstimulates your brain . And it's a nightmare to quit. Because makes biologically need to spread there seed. It's so bad for some it's like a multiple time daily task . So the quickest easiest route for the sake of releasing sperm that's why we fall victim to that shit . Were biologically and hormonally driven to behave like that . Except porn now is so easily Accessible and we've watches so much for years eventually you desensitize your brain and become bored so people watch more and more to get the same sort of kick. Porn is like a drug . So we're we're to these behaviours and porn and years and years of porn is is were our brains go off the rails .it doesn't mean anything it's science backed why we watch this shit , why gay men like men with pussy. Why women like erotic stories with vampires because a vampire male stays handsome and has the maturity and years of experience kind of thing .science says the vast majority of men who watch it are straight . I know I am so I don't need science to tell me that . But I know why I can watch this and not gay shit. Porn escalation / fantasy and easy quite route as you say. It's not difficult to work it out when you out all the prices together. The first point of call in everyone's mind is yea gay. Which is why is so fucked up because our brains are a lot more complicated than that . Men are pretty much sexual deviants . Some more than others I'd you've got a high as duck testosterone it's highly likely you will end up watching that shit . Because we are visually triggered and news to release sperm .

    Put it this way they are surgically and hormonally altered to look like real women , we are hormonally triggered by that. Secondly ask a random women to blow you and you know we're you will go, you will be done to sexual harrasment . Ask a trans and she's probably get down on her knees then and there .

    We are driven by hormones and the higher the testosterone probably the more impulsive . We have control over it . It's daft tbh . But you can stop watching it like every othwr porn genre but we are driven hormonally and biologically so it isn't exactly easy .

    People worry they must be gay . It doesn't and your not.

    For me the novelty of it has worn off aswell as every other porn . I obviously prefer women , I love women's body's and there femine nature . I don't love men's. But I'm bored of all porn . So I can break it down to what it really is . The quickest route to pmo. A t girl wanting to blow you. Now that the novelty has worn off Im not into it. I've been watching it and about to finish then the t girl cums and my cum shoots back inside my body it's impossible to finish .I actually cover up the genitals so I know it's not about that im not into the visual I'm into the fantasy .which was intriguing at first and because porn had become boring ,now it's all boring

    It's very difficult to quit porn because of all this . But wtf do you do .
     
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  10. cadia guardsman

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    You said it all brother! Its a struggle , very hard struggle but it isnt an impossible struggle!
     
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  11. Wave tamer

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    I’ve been visiting them for a few years encouraged with the trans porn sissy crap, you’re right it’s just shock, taboo and escalation. It’s really started to loose its appeal now. And much prefer female sex. I think it’s a combination of all the pain it causes the work I’ve done around it and it not really being a novelty any more. Try thinking of the man behind all that makeup and plastic I find that pretty off putting. I’m certainly a long way till I’m fully recovered, but just had sex with a really nice girl. And it was so nice to feel that female energy and not that weird masculine smell I preform like I used to. Something that I thought I’d f#*ked up with the low sense of self from the degrading stuff. So much better than that shame I used to feel leaving a ts escort or that vile crap on porn.
     
  12. I don't think the escalation theory applies to everyone. I have always like the idea of women with male genitals, even in my earliest days of PMO.
     
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  13. Wave tamer

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    Fair enough, everybody has different roots that has led them to where they are. Mine escalated from the femdom world. It was a new type of rush for me. Just so glad it’s fading
     
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  14. Dam its been months since anyone posted on this thread. Im just gonna leave this here and my full story is on my profile somewhere under the thread porn ruined my life. I guess im not the only one whose struggled with this. But am i the only one whose acted out . I never thought it would happen. My whole life i been attracted to girls and they have been attracted to me many times. Im 19 btw and was molested by 2 older boys when i was young kid just to preface this and since i turned 18 my porn usage escalated to transwoman shit like crazy and its bugged me so much i didnt know how to handle it besides to stop looking at porn obviously. Which i would. On and off. Stay on a streak then relapse a streak then relapse and go off for a couple days binge and feel like worthless scum for the rest of the week or however long until the feelings somewhat subsided. Just last month however because of the sissy hypno and the weird fantasy that all created in my head i went and seen a ts escort which was one of if not the worst mistake in my life. First There was no insertion involved, HE cuz it was a he thats the correct pronoun because this person looked nothing like the fantasy id seen on porn videos and cam sites of what I thought i was gonna go see and experience, this person made no effort whatsoever to even look remotely like a woman. I mean he had the hair and the clothes but it looked ridiculous and disgusting. My heart was telling me to leave but i was scared i dont know why. I wasnt thinking straight at all. I was plagued with looking at the situation through the lens of porn and the need to release was so much that i never made eye contact only looked to get off to a certain body part just like in the porn. But it was terrible. This happened the end of September and at this moment as i type i cant believe myself for doing what i did. Suicidal thoughts have never been so prevalent and i know i wont do such a thing but man porn is the devil. Just stop guys. Stop giving this multi billion dollar entity the power to fuck with you. It’s designed to emasculate men and keep them brain dead by hacking into our natural tendencies to want to “release” but in a sadistic manipulative and counterintuitive way. Dont give in to the temptations guys please!!! You are worth so much more!!! Thank you.
     
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  16. I looked up a little on that and ive hypothesized the issue myself for a while now. I think its just a culmination of the increased full fledged access to any type of porn with the emergence of smart devices. Also the push for transgender in the mainstream as socially acceptable and part of normal life. Not saying this is a bad thing I understand society as a whole should be more accepting as an all around culture but when its such a main vocal point for certain agenda driven talking points ie kaitlyn jenner, male to female allowed to play in female leagues of physical sport, and correct and non correct pronoun usage. All these things at least to me seemed to have been subconsciously downloaded to men who were already addicted to porn or suffered past trauma and were also addicted to porn, once there tolerance became to high and they needed higher doses to get that “fix” the introduction of transwoman porn doesnt seem so foreign unfortunately as it happened to me. There is a cure however and thats stopping and getting away from porn as fast as possible and the thoughts and inclinations to get off from these certain things will eventually erode and go away forever. Your body is made up of electricity its all chemical. You gotta imbalance chemically, find the proper balance again. Through righteous deeds and meaningful actions. Stay up fellas
     
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  18. They ain't women though, mate: they are a sad parody. They have even elaborated the theory of gender performativity to justify themselves.

    I think this will be controversial, but I think the reason why some straight men find them sexually attractive is because of a deep seated, latent wish for pederasty; or, to speak euphemistically, a wish to experience Greek love. They are merely shaved boys, after all. As all transgendered person porn aficionados know, the younger ones are the most attractive; and even in their own community, the onus is very much on "transitioning" as young as possible using puberty blockers and other crazy shit.

    At least this was the case for me, after a lot of honest self analysis. I had to accept that I was somewhat bisexual, but that I was only attracted to young, effeminate dudes.
     
  19. They aren't being themselves though, brother. This is why the transgendered person intelligentsia are constantly propagating variations of the idea of gender performativity. They freely admit to being actors in the great play of the world because they think that "male" and "female" are merely dramaturgical designations. They are fetishists whose role-playing has become a full-time preoccupation.

    And when I called them a sad parody of actual women (which isn't untrue) these are the words of feminist Germaine Greer.
     
  20. This is where im at with it i think this is mostly what it consists of. And i said in my last post here that I think society as a whole over time needs to be more accepting as culture overall, which it somewhat has , but the main underlying issue is the widespread access to foreign things on the web. I had no problem with transgender people before i started watching them in porn, I always just looked at it for what it is, id feel sorry for them at times but i also dont really care what anyone does With their lives so long as they dont force it on anyone else. When your a 15-16 year old kid sometimes maybe even younger these days and you get exposed to all types of weird porn to get off to through escalation overtime from a childhood addiction, and you start questioning your values and standards as a man that you thought you had once natural control of, like how you uses to just get turned on by the slightest feminine thing, like a pretty girl talking to you, the smell of her perfume, a nice time. but your thoughts have been hijacked and the addiction breaks those bases and all you need as an addict is a high dose of dopamine to “release” I think we can all agree thats not good.
     

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