I have been free of this terrible addiction, habit, whatever you call it for yourself for over 5 years now. One of the few truly universal truths I have learned on this journey is that you need positivity in your life to make serious changes. Negativity needs to be avoided as much as is possible. I have been shocked at how many negative comments are on these threads. Negative comments to each other, tearing each other down, making fun of others, negative comments about women, degrading comments, etc. We aren't here to push our agenda. We aren't here to change anyone's mind. If someone asks for advice we are all free to give it. Chances are there are a lot of opinions between all of us. That is okay. I say we all stand up and try to be a little more positive. If you disagree with someone, you DO NOT HAVE TO SAY IT. If someone gave crazy terrible advice, there is probably a kind way to challenge it. Haruki Murakami once wrote, “Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.” So let's be kind... even if you THINK you are right.