Why so much precum on my dick ?

Your body has been used to producing a lot of fluid to keep up with pmo, it will take some time for this to slow down to normal levels. P subs aren't helping with this.

 

I struggle with the same exact thing. Useful in some situations, but really an annoyance and embarrassment. I haven't found any way to control it.

 

Hi @s0gek1ng

If "flirting", "talking personally", and watching music videos are causing you distress and difficulties, there is a really simple way to avoid the problems : don't flirt, "talk personally", or watch these music videos.

Really now, what you describe is a physiological response to excitation. What you are doing is playing with triggering activities. That is not a good thing to do. You may sometimes be able to stop and overcome urges that such activities induce, but many many times the urges will win and relapse will follow. When we go looking for trouble - and what you are doing is looking for trouble - we'll find it and the results won't be good.

Stop kidding yourself and get serious about your journey of healing. Think about why you are here and what you want and need to accomplish. Then make some smart decisions - one can be to stop these destructive activities - and get going !


One day at a time is how we all succeed.

 

Dude, I was just experiencing the power of provocative visuals and realizing the effects they’ve been having on my resistance. Thanks for sharing your experiences and not being afraid to begin the healing process. Staying away from arousing media and training your brain to separate erotica-induced escalation from interactions in reality should lead you to experience a consistent recovery. You got this!!