Anna, I disagree. The woman who has had several partners outside of sex will be more likely to wonder and fantasize about what sex with someone else is like when married. Do I speak from experience? No. Saying that the woman will have a stronger bond to her husband because she has had multiple partners or even just with her future husband just does not compute. I do realize your argument is a commonly accepted one, but I do not believe it is true. She will be more likely to have less self-control and less faithfulness than the woman who is willing to wait. A woman that has practice breaking up with guys will also be more likely to feel divorce is an option. I think it would be better to learn with a spouse how to have sex with both of us learning as we go as opposed to getting married to a woman who is skilled at sex and wonder who taught her that or how I compare to her past men. There are a lot of doubts and confusion that comes into the marriage when a spouse has a lot of outside experience.