Why the significant male to female ratio?

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  1. James23

    James23 Fapstronaut

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    Anna, I disagree. The woman who has had several partners outside of sex will be more likely to wonder and fantasize about what sex with someone else is like when married. Do I speak from experience? No. Saying that the woman will have a stronger bond to her husband because she has had multiple partners or even just with her future husband just does not compute. I do realize your argument is a commonly accepted one, but I do not believe it is true.

    She will be more likely to have less self-control and less faithfulness than the woman who is willing to wait. A woman that has practice breaking up with guys will also be more likely to feel divorce is an option. I think it would be better to learn with a spouse how to have sex with both of us learning as we go as opposed to getting married to a woman who is skilled at sex and wonder who taught her that or how I compare to her past men. There are a lot of doubts and confusion that comes into the marriage when a spouse has a lot of outside experience.
     
  2. RealLifeGamer

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    Because almost all male are audio-visual and female sexuality is heavily emotion and fantasy related.
    Porn is visual and audio type material - It is aimed at men.

    That´s why so many women read sexual fiction and erotic literature, it stimulates their fantasy as also their sexuality.

    James and Anna you two have different standpoints deal with it. Both you opinions are tolerated here but don´t try to rub your opinions in each other´s face.


    There is no only truth or only wrong, both of you have pieces of truth.

    The reason why many men prefer virgins or "pure" women is because it is much less likely that she has STDs because women in general because they have a bodyopening instead of a limb down there are much more likely to get infected than men. It´s a biological reason.

    Now, I don´t find it wrong or bad for a girl to have some more sexual partners but not every man wants such a woman. And if a woman wants a hot, sensible, manly, rich , assertive, ambitious man, then a man also has the right to want a pure, sexual unexperienced woman.

    It´s not up to you or me to decide what someone else wants or should want. I am not here to discuss, just to state my opinion.
     
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  3. ..Anna..

    ..Anna.. Fapstronaut

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    I am not feminist at all. Yes, maybe I am generalizing too much, I am sorry for that. I put my experience with porn addict and aplied it to everyone who has this problem. Maybe it is not right.
     
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  4. ..Anna..

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    This is the only sentence I am agreeing from your last post. This is true.
    All the rest- no. Because you are not a girl which had this experience. I know what is going on in my mind and fantasies after that experience. When I had only one partner, I was thinking about others even during relationship. After experience understood, that it is the same with every guy, sex is sex, so I am not interested at all, I even don't see anything sexual in any guy outside relationship, no matter how he looks. Even if I am not in love with a partner.
     
  5. Star Lord

    Star Lord Fapstronaut

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    I agree with James.
     
  6. James23

    James23 Fapstronaut

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    That's OK Anna. I'm glad we have a better understanding of where we disagree and will have to agree to disagree.
     
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  7. dawa_tashi

    dawa_tashi Fapstronaut

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    Men seek out novelty, it's genetic. We get rewarded in our brains for every time we mate with another person thus begins the cycle of addiction. Reward pathways build up because our brains liked the results of our need for diversity. It's rather simple really, women generally look for a partner, men look for multiple partners.
     

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