Why you Shouldn't Masturbate

You're just repeating the same argument. Bad things aren't based on subjective views, like killing, stealing and kidnapping. If we were to say that bad things are based on subjective views, then serial killers wouldn't have been called criminals. Bad things are based on their harms and benefits and not just a personal option.

That's the problem with masturbating, anyone who masturbates, masturbates too much. Everyone that masturbates is addicted to it and they don't give any benefits in exchange. The other things that you have mentioned are essential things and they part from our daily life. And they normally don't become addictions.

How is imposing my views as universal dangerous?

 

you are a hypocrite, and you should be disgusted with yourself to say the above statement.
if you don't see how you are in the message of yours I quoted, then there is no reason to talk to you further,

excessive exercising can be a form of purging, and people can be "addicted" to purging. just to name one of the huge amount of ways you are wrong.
google it, hell, if you want factual evidence, google scholar it and see what scientists have to say.

as for work, people use work as an unhealthy escape all the time, to avoid dealing wish issues in their lives, taking care of people, etc. etc. etc.

you spout nonsense,
please get more educated and stop running with your opinions if you wish to contribute quality advice.

you have no clue what you are talking about and it is obvious and embarrassing for you, please stop.

 

You are trying to act as if you were the wise man here.

Please, how the hell can someone be addicted to exercising? There might be people who exercises too much, but that has nothing to do with being addiction. Addiction is when you can't control what you are doing.

There's a difference between being addicted to work and too much work.

I like how you say please and insult me in the same time.

 

I am planning in the future, what about you? You seems to know something about those things.

How could utilitarianism be used to justify slavery? And even if it could. How does that make it bad? Can't some people use it for wrong purposes and other people use it for right purposes?

I didn't say such a thing.

Yes, I agree, morality may exist. But, when we come to think about killers for example, we will see that all they do is speeding the process up of death of someone.

 

glad to see someone else who has challenged there thoughts with education.

This is obviously going no where.

It is obvious you are not willing to have your view challenged and therefore will consistently fall victim to the pitfalls of your own Ideas (hardly a good plan for the future), your life will be very difficult if you do not challenge your point of view or accept that your view does not need to be imposed on others as fact,

I'm sure your response will include something along the lines of "that is what you guys are doing".

We are advocating for respect to an individuals process, even if it is in contrast to our own. Whatever works for someone. The presentation of a given process working for an individual is a personal representation, and is not factual, nor can be blanketed over all others.

you are stating over and over again that your way is the correct way, and that your views are fact, and seemingly will belligerently deny and ignore any truth or supported evidence far above your simple opinions backed up by by your own personal interpretation and experience.

In other words, it is a waste of energy to speak to you,

as Aristotle Quotes, It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.

You have presented nothing opposed to your single, simple, and inaccurately applied view.

I wish you the best in your recovery. And I hope you find peace in your thoughts.

 

Oh, dear. Calm down, it's just a conversation. My views becomes facts when they make sense. Not, because I said so.

You're repeating the same argument, eh?

I wonder what makes you mad? Is it because I didn't accept what you said? Oh, sorry. You're just another one who thinks that he's the wise man and he is genius and that people need to accept what is he saying. Correct me, if I am wrong.

 

Could you show me where did you say that? I thought that you were saying that my argument is false and is only a personal view, seems like I misunderstand you, and sorry if I was mean.

 

exactly.

last post in this thread.

Wish you guys the best!

 

Seems that nothing is abstract and we move things into abtraction not to deal with reality. If you are suffering from porn addiction and compulsive masterbatio, sure the long term goal ought to be to have a rich and full sex life that might include masterbation and casual sex depending on who you are. However, if you have been suffering from porn addition and sex addition, as I have on and off since I was a teenager, you have to retrain your body and your mind to have sexual activity outside of that cycle. For me masterbating since I was a teenager has always been about imagining sex in a pornographic context, not a real context. Stopping masterbation to reorder my sexual thoughts and the personal behaviors that drive them seems reasonable and required, because even when I have the fiction of masterbating in a non porn "healthy" fantasy way, it always leads to the same fantasies driven by the same things that porn is and fits in with that. A couple years ago my wife and I decided while neither was an alcoholic, we had too many problems from drinking regularly. We completely stopped drinking tried to examine the way drinking caused problems, but now can drink very moderately usually only when we have guests or at a wake, and can have a whole collection of wine, champagne, vodka, and other liquor in the closet for such occaisions and not take a drink for months now without problems.


Whatever you think about this, it helps us all to hear from you and everyone who is trying to fix this even if we do not agree on everything. The first step is the most important step THANK EVERYONE HERE FOR INSPIRING ME.

 

For me masturbation without porn will led to a relapse. I am committed to not jacking off. I will not orgasm unless my wife is involved.

 

The point is Masturbation and Porn both are 2 different addiction so when you abstain from both of them in the same time it can be so difficult that's why many people relapsed in the long run because they connected masturbation with porn however masturbation alone has its benefits ( if you are single ) but you don't need to over do it