Wife sharing fantasy

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by modo877776, Mar 7, 2021.

  1. modo877776

    modo877776 New Fapstronaut

    Just found out about this group today. I have developed a problem where I only masturbate to a wife sharing fantasy. I play this out on social media and feel so bad afterwards. It’s so misogynistic and completely against my usual values. It’s making me not want real sex with real women. Can this be ‘cured’?
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  2. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Yes, it can be cure simply stop watching it and let time pass. Don't fantasize about it too.

    Just like an ex girlfriend which you loved alot, eventually you will forget about her.
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  3. Lovelife247

    Lovelife247 Fapstronaut

    Welcome, once you stop watching porn it will go back to normal. You got this, realize it’s a fantasy you don’t want. Your brain is playing tricks on you. Maybe try to schedule a date night or find a new hobby to do with your wife. Stay strong man, it’s a super Crappy tunnel you don’t wanna go down. Stop now, stay strong.
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  4. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    What? o_O What have Mormons got to do with it? :confused:
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  5. Magic underwear! ;)
  6. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    LMFAO! :D
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  7. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Stop masturbating for a while. Maybe it will go away.

    Also, are you married? I feel like if you aren't then it is just some porn fantasy. If you are then maybe it goes deeper.
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  8. Had this fantasy myself, think it's p0rn induced. A lot of couples do this and regret it afterwards. The devil at work!
  9. Doublep

    Doublep Fapstronaut

    I felt the same. I would spend a ton of time watching shared wife videos. I even asked my wife about it in a round about way. I tried to join couples. It was a dark time. I have stopped PMO all around. And since then the urges have lessened and I know on time and with community and communication I will be rest back toy morals and values. You can make it happen. Think of what is on the line and why you have to lose.
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  10. Had this fucking problem too and I can’t shake the shame off of me.

    Years ago I’d share photos (explicit but no full nudes) of my lovely gf to a specific website to get attention, it was my light in the dark I had been through some years prior.

    One day I snapped and just told her, and now three years or so later we are engaged.

    I should really be happy, and I am - but I wish this whole cuck shit could burn and rot in hell, I never ever will return to the immature piece of shit i once was, that’s for sure.

    Stay strong!
    Last edited: Apr 21, 2021
  11. Renew_1990

    Renew_1990 Fapstronaut

    Its because youve burnt yourself out woth pmo. You have no drive left, so you find it more rewarding to let someone else pleasire your wife than you.
    Do your 90 days without p,m
    You will soon find that the natural urges return and the thought of sharing with someone else will enrage you.
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  12. BigBob73

    BigBob73 Fapstronaut

    I've always loved that fantasy of sharing my girl. Not in a cuckold way, more stag and vixen.
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  13. Inloverber

    Inloverber Fapstronaut

    Save yourself while there is time. Avoid fantasizing, if it lingers your mind then try to do something to keep your mind busy. Or challenge yourself like if I didn't fantasize for a month, I'll gonna buy a shoes. Something like that, reward system. It works for some.

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