What made me angry is not the fetish itself, because at the start of the thread, OP sounds like he wants to do something about it. It is his wife, he finds her attractive and loves her so I can see why he would not want to do anything drastic in fear of losing that, so he tries to just "take advantage" of the situation by pleasuring himself with it. What made me lose control is the fact that he came asking for help, and instead of paying attention to what others said about his situation, he just used that to dive further into the problem. He asked for helo but didn't really wanted it, so he made us all lose our time trying to help him. I have dealt with this kind of people before and it doesn't matter what you do, they won't get better because they like their misery being a source for attention. Also you like chubby girls in stockings too? Let us be friends.