Will I ever be able to make love again without thinking about past pmo behavior?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jun 17, 2020.

  1. Like I always got ashamed when I made love to my ex due to those nasty sessions I had with pron. Anyone else relate? It would always plague my mind during anything intimate and then I would feel like a joke or loser or something
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  2. aarontkbarnes

    aarontkbarnes Fapstronaut

    It comes with time man. But after you have lived a rational and morally good life for a while, the guilt and shame will subside. Hang in there and have faith. This will make you a better man guaranteed.
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  3. luskos

    luskos Fapstronaut

    In short, yes! After a while into this you would find yourself not able to remember much from what you ever watched online. Maybe few scenes that you really like, but most of it would be blank. That's what happened with me once when i got to day 40, i was unable to recall in my memory a scene i watched hundred times or more. It was like i never have seen it. My memory was blank.

    Stay golden!
  4. Rev2.0

    Rev2.0 Fapstronaut

    Yes to this. I knew I was making progress when images of my favorite P stars started popping into my head much less regularly. And now it's to the point I'm starting to forget their names. These are women I spent years looking at on a screen and now it's like they don't even exist. When I do drift into fantasy now (my next frontier to conquer) it's almost always about someone I personally know, or some "perfect stranger" ... not a porn skank. As long as I don't "go back there" I expect this progression to continue.
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  5. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    I can't say. But more PMO won't help. It'll only make things worse. Just focus on recovery. Hopefully then you can have a normal sex life!
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