WILL I EVER BE CURED? femdom

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by bayern12, May 27, 2018.

  1. bayern12

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    Hey guys. Im on the 14th day of no PMO. I have watched FEMDOM porn since I was 14(IM 24 now). I never had thoughts of having sex. Most of my sexual fantasies were about feet. That is because i was a fat kid, without fate in himself. NOWDAYS I look very good. Im tall with blue eyes since I started NOFAP I start to date many women. BUT I HAVE PIED. I WANT TO HAVE SEX SO FUCKING MUCH!!!!!!!!! My urges and fantasies about my fetish are gone!! I WANT TO HAVE A HEALTHY SEX LIFE WITHOUT PIED!!!!! Do you know someone that got out of this horrible situation?! recovering from femdom addiction in to a healthy sex life?!?!
    IM SCARED.
     
  2. jhonny deep

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    hey buddy,i was erotic and femdom porn addict for years.i even watched porn for more than 6 hours a day if i had a holiday.The big mistake i ever did was masturbating while watching those videos,my guess is that if i had masturbated without them rather by imagination i am pretty sure i never would have gotten pied in first place.i didnt cared about masturbation and porn much until one day i didnt quite get full erection by looking at nudes or real women when i see them and it came right back when i opened femdom videos.Day by day the erections got weaker and weaker.Then i searched internet if anyone had similar problems,thank god i found the video in ted talk where that guy explained about coolidge effect and effect of porn in our lives .Let me tell you what i have gone through.its been almost three months since i quit there were astonishing changes.i can never explain the joy with words when i had my morning woods back. Even though i am not cured fully i reckon every single day without porn is worth it.Dont worry just stay calm and relax.Never ever watch porn again in your life and stop masturbating. A day without porn would be very frustrating at first ,trust me you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.For recovering quick stop imagining those fetishes.since the fetishes are rooted deep you need to bite the bullet.At first every day seemed like hell without porn.stop checking your erections by watching porn again.give it roughly two months,you will clearly see that your erections getting better.Try focusing on different things like sports,get out of your house and do something.there is no need to feel depressed think of it like a sex diet.If think you are getting out of control come here and read success stories or hit panic button.you will definitely get your sex life back .hope it helps. cheers....keep focused
     
  3. bayern12

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    Thank you.myfriend. Do you have a healthy sex life these days? Cured from PIED?
     
  4. Gohan003

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    Just meditate 10 minutes a day for real
     
  5. g2stop

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    I have pied that gets better then much worse on relapses
     
  6. FrenchOliver

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    same problem here, I just relapse, I need to be stronger
     
  7. petewete

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    Hey buddy, im in the same boat as you. Want to have normal sex so freakin bad but the penis is not being supportive right now. How are you progressing?
     
  8. A lot of people successfully cure their PIEDs, so I think you don't need to worry about that. Nevertheless, it is very likely that some problems from your childhood affected you psychologically and you will need additional help from the professional. Firstly try reboot. If you had problem after a few months then you would need to contact psychologist or sexuologist.
     
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  9. bayern12

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    Im on day 49, havent tried sex yet, but I overcame the femdom addiction and im looking forward for a vannila relationship. Hope that my dick will work. Anyways, waiting for the 90 days to come:)
     
  10. 90 days isn't a magic number - some take longer. The day that matters is TODAY. If you never fap TODAY, all the tomorrows - and the weeks and months - take care of themselves.
     
  11. hello friend. I would say it does get better. You only have one thing on this journey and that's hope.

    That being said i do think you are going about this the wrong way. I was in the same similar situation, where i said i want to have sex so fucking bad. But really you have to distance yourself from that for the time being. Find other aspirations besides sex, you cant have that right now. Focus on your life and the rest will come,
     
  12. fedmom

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    I've made a thread on this on a method of increasing serotonin to get rid of this addiction.
     
  13. Me!! Ive never admitted on here that ive been into femdom. But i have. I got into femdom actually while on nofap, thats when i first found out about it. It crept up on my ass too.

    The difficult thing about femdom you must understand, alot of it involves you being dominated & degraded in your fantasies derived from this porn.

    You watch/read it and your heartbeat starts to rise bc its an intense topic. Whats happening is your adrenaline is rising, which your body confuses w sexual attraction, leading to PMO.

    Regardless, it sucks.

    I healed my PIED (pretty much fully). I say pretty much bc i think i can do even better.

    Coming from somebody that had extreme PIED and now has very successful sex, i can answer any questions.

    PIED isn't that terrible and can be reversed. Porn isnt all of your issues down there. Anxiousness due to concerns of "performing" & stress are BIG causes for your dick not working.

    That being said, you have to quit porn bc its too a factor. But relapsing isnt a big deal.

    For example. The other day (or yesterday, whatever my counter says) i actually relapsed on fendom porn. Then that same day had sex w my girlfriend twice, less than 12 hours.

    I mentioned sex not to give you tmi. But to show you that a relapse doesnt mean youre back to square one.

    Good luck boi
     
  14. Farewell_fetish

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    I have the final solution for you my man, but you need to focus just a little bit, here the video explaining how you get rid of femdom
     
  15. Farewell_fetish

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    Please help me guys sharing this video with all sexual "slaves" on the planet, it's MY GOAL
     
  16. modernstore99

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    Getting rid of PIED is simple. You have to do a hardmode, 90 day reboot, and immediately follow that with positive sexual interactions. After your reboot, your mind has been wiped clean, and doesn't really "know" that women are supposed to be arousing and give you erections. You should be absolutely talking and flirting with women, and hopefully bringing some to the bedroom. You should try having sex as well; you may not be 100% erect, but as long as it feels good from start to stop (stopping the sex without finishing is okay too), your brain will remember the feeling, and make you more aroused each time.

    Before my reboot, I literally could not get hard from a woman at all, even while one was sucking me off. I did a 90 day hard mode, and got a girl friend during that time; during the reboot, we were always kissing, cuddling, sleeping together, and I was always going down on her. After 90 days + a few more until I felt "ready", we started having sex. My erections weren't great, the sensations weren't crazy good, and we were limited to like 2 positions, but it felt good every time, and we really enjoyed doing it with each other. Sometimes I didn't finish, and other times I lasted like 2 minutes. Every time though, my dick got harder, and the whole thing felt better. Eventually, my erections were so hard that we could barely do doggy style, and my pleasure was so good that I could focus on my girlfriend's for most of the time, and still finish when I want to.

    I use Your Brain on Porn for all my info on porn addiction, PIED, rebooting, and rewiring. I encourage you all to follow the following links. The more knowledge you have, the more tools you have to fight this affliction

    Evolution has not prepared your brain for today’s porn (main article)
    PIED START HERE
    How long will it take to recover from Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction?
     

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