Will my frequency of wet dreams decrease if I'll carry on the usual way?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by SeekingMyWay2, Dec 24, 2018.

  1. SeekingMyWay2

    SeekingMyWay2 Fapstronaut

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    There is the easy way of doing NoFap of not simply masturbating, edging or viewing pornography during daytime and not fantastizing, then there are the supporters of the theory, which I also believe in - that sleepedging or sleepfapping is also under your control and relapse as the moment you put your hand on it you can decide whether you will continue doing it or put a ''pause'' on it which seemed to be true from my experience.

    However I am very confused about wet dreams, as the supporters of them say that they will inflow O2 to your genitals and basically it is a way of maintenance to not make your dick rot off, however the dick still gets erect on it's own during REM sleep or early morning testosterone peak, therefore if wet dream maintains anything then maybe it is mainteance of the pathways through which sperm is delivered through? However that does not sound logical to me.

    Wet dream though means that semen cannot be re-absorbed into the body, therefore you are still getting the pathway re-wiring features of NoFap from not doing PMESO during day, but I think it is likely that your thoughts during day or before sleep could have created the erotic dream that always has caused ejaculation during sleep for me, however this always seems to happen after a certain point of no visual erotic/sexual/pornographic stimulation during daytime and no edging/masturbation.

    I still carry on and do not break any of the daytime rules nor will I edge or touch my junk during night, as I will also floorsleep from now on, it has in fact made me feel better in past, so it is time to implent it again.

    It is just that the nighttime ejaculation always troubles my mind and does not make my streak feel as ''pure''. So I am clueless here, as I also believe that I have felt like 30-40% connection with my subconsciousness processes that happen between my awakeness-sleep periods and I have felt slight connection while being in the erotic dream (they do feel realistic af, almost as if you are actually having sex, but mine are not pornographic anymore, but mostly just stimulated real world scenes or atleast themes and objects generated from real world ''assets'' not from themes that I have seen in pornography, as I have been porn-free for several months now on, so my problem still remains in all the nighttime chaos that tends to break out now and then.

    I am thinking if I will just enforce the casual no edging, touching, fapping during daytime and nighttime will my mind eventually deprogram itself to release the semen during night? As I mentioned before, I think that it is not a programmed or biologic process to release semen during night, but it is mostly influenced by the lack of any form of sexual stimulation visually or physically, therefore the subconsciouss tension that builds up in your body sexually in lower levels, every time when you might have accidentaly felt arousal or sexual thought, at one point will want to ''go out'' of your system.

    I want to hear different kind of views on this issue and whether the frequency of wetdreams decreased the longer you just stayed on the normal NoFap rules.
     
  2. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    I think wet dreams (well, sex dream in my case since I have never woken up in wet undies) come randomly. Based on my personal experience, some dreams come when I did not fantasize at all before sleep. Some came after I fantasize. I'm on my 34th day now and I've had 4-5 sex dreams.
     
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  3. SeekingMyWay2

    SeekingMyWay2 Fapstronaut

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    So it is still a streak even if you ejaculate during night? The amount of sheets and underwear can be quite costy to be honest, I mean I have heard about people that do not have wet dreams, I am still 17, I read that after 18-20 years they are supposed to not happen anymore, they did start to happen only when I initiated no ejaculation, no porn, no masturbation routine.
     
  4. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    Yeah.. Because I don't do it intentionally and I believe wet dream is a natural phenomenon.
    I'm now 23. Probably what you read is correct that I'll never have natural wet dreams anymore. Wish you could find me the link of the article.
     
  5. Dreams are both natural yet unpredictable. Also mutliple dreams/ ejaculations is common for me in one night. Some time last week had more than i count count, messed up everything. Just be prepared to clean up. All i can advice you. S does help, but the chaser effect makes them more common. Most of my dreams usualy involve my lady friends.
     
  6. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    Thank you for the advice bro
     
  7. Goldenlion7892

    Goldenlion7892 Fapstronaut

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    Sorry to intrude, but does anyone have any advice for how to avoid relapsing after a wet dream? I’ve come so far as of late, but my problem seems to be that 1-2 days after a wet dream I relapse.
     
  8. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    My ultimate way is to keep ourselves busy and avoid being alone with a working internet connection.
     

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