Will NoFap get me laid?

This is a question that always pops around in this forums and one that you shouldn't be afraid of asking.

I've seen a lot of guys who are brave enough to ask this kind of question but then people start attacking them telling them that they're shallow and superficial. And no, I mean sex is something pretty natural and we all want it (women included). The thing to remember here is, you won't be able to heal from your mental issues by having sex instead of fapping. Because you'll pretty much be the guy who's not ok with himself and is very insecure about his personality.

To answer the specific question of the title this is my answer: NoFap isn't a service for you to get laid, it's a service for you to get to know and love yourself. You may get laid down the road which is great, but the most important thing is you'll be ok with who you are and who you want to become. You have to get into your mind, remove all your insecurities, let go of your past bad experiences and become the best self you could ever be.

Now, specifically about sex. There's two things women love, can you guess them? "Umm looks and money?" NO. Confidence and good energy, and that's what NoFap gives you. Because you're not masking all of your problems with jerking off, you are able to be someone who's very confident with who he is and you'll notice after 10 days of NoFap you'll have a massive energy boost, which then goes down but you can still feel the energy with the proper discipline. One thing that most guys notice is that after some time (like two weeks or a month) girls will stare at you, I shit you not.

And why is that? There's a couple of hypothesis which say either it's pheromones that let them know you have sexual energy to give them or it's that you look quite more confident so you don't notice but you change the way you walk or talk or something. My hypothesis is that you're giving out good energy, which attracts great things. It's not something tangible or that you can see, it's just a feeling. You know there's some guys who walk into a room and everything feels more positive, or guys who just have so negative attitude that they just put you down? Well, probably you used to be the latter and NoFap made you the first one.

Now that doesn't mean you're going to go talk to one of the girls that stare at you and say "fuck me right now" because it's not going to work. I mean, cheers if it works, but it probably isn't. Ok so what do I do? Take the first step. You're in a good mood, you are full with sexual energy, just go and say "hi, my name is..." "nice to meet you". And then talk. If you're worried about running out of things to say, I recommend you watch this video:


If you don't have the time, read this. But seriously watch the video, it's great. Ok, talk about your passions vividly, describe stories as if they were mental pictures, lose your filter (outside of inappropiete offensive shit) and make a chain of association. That last one means you should associate one word of the sentence that was last included in the conversation and make another sentence which relates.

Now, this doesn't mean you should only talk to girls that stared at you, you can talk to any girl, as long as you're confident. Just have the same amount of confidence with supermodels as you would with a not so attractive girl.