Will rebooting cure me of my spanking fetish?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Needhelp22, Jan 16, 2020 at 1:45 PM.

  1. Needhelp22

    Needhelp22 New Fapstronaut

    Hello guys, I believe this fetish has really gotten to my head and I need advice. Im a 22 year old male and have a spanking fetish and have been getting off to spanking and femdom videos since I was a teen. It started with the female as the dominant and I would fantasize about being dominated by the female. I think I always had the fetish of being dominated by a female since I was very young but I don’t really know for sure if that’s the case.

    Over the years my fetish also developed into being spanked by a male as well. I watched videos where the male was the dominant over the female and I got really turned on. I started really enjoying reading spanking stories and making them up including male to male, just spanking nothing more. This recently has made me question my sexual orientation even though I always considered myself straight and am only physically attracted to women. I have never watched gay porn. The male part of my fetish is what’s really bothering me. Will Nofap reset this for me? I feel I am in too deep now. I want to stop thinking about this.
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  2. fedmom

    fedmom Fapstronaut

    I don't see how stopping masturbating would do anything but I have a thread in my profile on this.
  3. Muphy

    Muphy Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Yes it will. NoFap is not only about not watching porn and not fapping etc. Its a brain training exercise. you slowly learn to control your thoughts. not giving your brain what it looks for every time (fapping or orgasm etc). With time you'll also understand that this all was corrupting you and you need to leave that. but things will take time. your brain will learn in some time that this is not right.
  4. SeekingPower

    SeekingPower Fapstronaut

    I am inclined to disagree and play a heretic here.
    Be me. I like to spank girls.
    What NoFap did for me: I now spank the girls and than fuck them. Before: watch girls spanked on a monitor and than fuck my hand.
  5. dogeatdog

    dogeatdog Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    There's only one way to find out and that's to do a full reboot free of PMO. I've always been into the idea of having a female 'dominant' partner in bed but a lot of people have told me that this was due to excessive PMO over time. I'm gonna aim for 90 days and I'll see how I feel about the topic; let's do this together.

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