Will sex ruin the streak?

Not if you are doing a "normal" mode like me. I am only abstaining from porn and masturbation because I am married. So I still have sex with my wife and obviously orgasm.

If you want to do a "hard" mode then yes, you would need to abstain from sex because that's not doing porn, masturbation or orgasm.

Welcome!

 

I'm not expert, there are a lot more well informed people that can give you their opinions. As to whether hookups are right or wrong...again it's down to what you want for yourself. If you want to just do "normal" mode like me...I guess technically they are fine for casual sex because you are allowed to orgasm. For "hard" mode, this would not be ok because you can't orgasm under that mode.

I just would be careful in general with random hookups, not really my style.

 

I assume you would just as much so as I do from having sex with my wife. We aren't doing hard mode though, so from my understanding it's not as beneficial from stories I've heard. But normal mode is still beneficial in of itself much more than porn and masturbation.

 

No problem man. But again, I could be completely wrong on this so anyone else can feel free to correct me. Just trying to help as much as I could!

 

But you can still have sex in hard mode right? Just don't orgasm....

 

Technically yeah I guess you could have sex in hard mode? But I've never heard of someone having sex and not having an orgasm? That's like going to an ice cream shop and not eating ice cream while you watch everyone else eat it.

 

Lol, ice cream isn't for everyone. But for instance there's females that don't orgasm during sex because a guy can't make them. But I'm guessing you'll just have to be strong. Have sex, but don't climax. If you're about to climax, stop, and please the female. Or just have sex until the female climaxes and you're done. That's the best conclusion I can come up with.

 

While technically not having an O would be OK I think the point of hard mode is to not get overly sexual with someone. Otherwise aren't you in bill Clinton territory

 

I beg to differ. I do have non-ejaculatory sex and while it sucked at the beginning, it rocks now.

When I started nofap, I would have sex and see the benefits diminish considerably after orgasming, even if I didn't do P and M anymore. I still have a lot of anxiety but I feel I'm healing. I would highly recommend not ejaculating during your reboot. Personally I plan to reduce my ejaculations to 1-2 a year, it feels amazing when you are on a long streak, so in balance with everything.

 

I know some females may say that they don't feel like they are doing their job if they aren't able to make the guy cum. Does your partner feel that way? (if you didn't tell them that you're choosing to not finish)

 

Yes, at first. But she is a very understanding person and I explained my reasons so she agreed. After a while she noticed the difference in stamina and mood that I had if I did not ejaculate and prefers me now as to the one that used to ejaculate.

 

Oh wow, that's great!

 

Why, you're thinking about telling your girl you want to hold it in?

 

Well I told her that it's not a big deal to me if I cum or not during sex because sex isn't about trying to reach an orgasm. Porn has made it seem that way. Sex is about being together with your partner, holding each other, feeling each other, learning about each other, etc etc. And she agreed with me. I did read that if you're intimate with your sex chronicles and actually taking your time to be in the moment that sex can be just as good as the climax. 15+ minutes of an amazing time > 1 minute or less of the feeling from having an orgasm...

 

Exactly!!! But you can climax without ejaculation, I did it a couple of times. You slow down right before you feel like cumming, so take it easy and then just do it slowly. No rush. Speed it up a bit again, get close to it and slow it down again. Do this a few times and at one point you feel it all over your body and it lasts a lot longer than when you ejaculate, let alone that you don't feel drained or tired after. You can keep going till 6 in the morning.

 

Haha I will for sure try that. I don't think I'm strong enough yet to slow down when I'm about to cum and not cum. I would have to pull out, please her for a while, then go back at it, until I could do what you mentioned above.

I did hear of a guy setting the record for climaxing without ejaculating.