Will soon be the 40 year old virgin

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Denbert, May 21, 2018.

  1. Denbert

    Denbert Fapstronaut

    Some of you on this forum are younger than myself. I am 38 and I am still a virgin. I have kissed and hugged a girl, and that is it. I don't want to discourage younger people here. Don't think you will be like me. I always had the thoughts "what is the point". My problem is I have had possible opportunities, but did not pursue them because I felt I was not worth it. Life is always changing. Good days and bad days. Sometimes good month and bad months. I am just saying don't give up. If you give up, you will never know what could happen. And yes, I am very embarrassed to admit this. As I get older, I start to care less what people think and try to focus on improving myself. I need to open up more. That is what I am doing here.
  2. John Lee Smith

    John Lee Smith Fapstronaut

    Being virgin is nothing shameful.
    Something awesome and special.
    Never risk of getting stds.
    You are clean dude.
    Best of luck.
    Loneliness is very powerful too.
  3. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

    good to see someone think like this......
  4. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

    dont confuse virginity with loneliness.............you should socialize more.....virginity is fine ........but no friends is .........not
  5. jukebbox

    jukebbox Fapstronaut

    Just hit the ant 's anntena. But if your virginity bothers you that much just focus on socializing more other way you will be obssessed about sex.
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  6. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

    It doesn't bothers me......but I feel hurt when other questions me......
    Yes ..... after a long time ....I am feeling good about myself.....and it will be good to socialize
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  7. Sardonic

    Sardonic Fapstronaut

    I go through ups and downs of worrying about being a virgin and not caring. I have never even gotten close to "getting laid", nowhere near. Some days it bothers me, like when I see attractive girls, and others I forget I am even a virgin as it is not a big deal... but either way I know that I have a long way to go before I am comfortable having sex, and I would rather wait and be comfortable than rush into anything.
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  8. Icandoit01

    Icandoit01 Fapstronaut

    Man u are lucky.
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  9. Denbert

    Denbert Fapstronaut

    Thanks everyone for the responses. The problem is life is short. Even if I had one experience, I could cross it off my bucket list.
  10. Potato93

    Potato93 Fapstronaut

    Virginity worries girls just as much as guys.
    I just stopped giving a fck about it for some reason.
    Like, technically if people ask about your virginity status they really arent people to hang around with; you know?
    If its about experience, then think about all the times you saw porn, you definitely have just as much sex knowledge than them...
    I never had sex, but I know that when I do, (if it ends up being a good or a bad experience) I wont get obssessed about it, and thats the important thing to have IN your MINDSET.
    Regardless of you being with a girl or not. The grass is always greener on the other side.
    Last edited: May 24, 2018
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