woman can recognize about porn addiction

I think women (generally speaking) have a higher sense of empathy than men. I think they just feed off of mens opinions of themselves and this is why they fill the "support" role of the relationship. It also explains why so many women are attracted to narcissistic types. They "feed" off of the fact that these guys love themselves.

If you have a high sense of empathy, you feed off of other people. It becomes almost like telepathy where they just "sense" what kind of person they may be dealing with. Maybe the manager has a lot of shame from his addiction and it makes him feel like a creep and now she feels "creeped out" around him?

If you're uncomfortable around her, she's gonna feel uncomfortable around you. If you're "creeping" around because you're nervous, she's gonna feel nervous too and see you as a creep.

I'm not getting the full picture here, but I'm definitely on the right track.

 

But then again, some people just give off a “vibe.” His predicted porn addiction is not verified. It’s just an assumption. Maybe he watches porn, maybe he doesn’t. Some people can be severely addicted, and hide it well. Like I was. I’ve never had any issues with finding relationships, meaning I probably didn’t give off a bad vibe. And in ALL of my past relationships, not a single one knew about my addiction. In fact, I didn’t even recognize it as a problem until recently.

 

How did you feel about it then, tho? We're you a confident person?

 

Well, to be honest, I have ALWAYS struggled with confidence. Even as a small child. So it’s hard to say if anything about my confidence levels were affected by porn use. I was definitely never particularly proud of viewing porn. But hiding my usage in previous relationships wasn’t really about shame (for the most part). More so, it was about protecting the feelings of my exes. I didn’t want them to feel jealous that I was getting off using images of other women. But I guess that goes into how one would define “shame” and “confidence.”