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Women are Refiners

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by jimmyclear, Jun 11, 2021.

  1. jimmyclear

    jimmyclear Fapstronaut

    When you give a woman something, what happens? They make it twice of something more, and give it back to you.

    Who said that? Erick S. Gray. His full quote is:

    “Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!”

    However, the society of today, doesn't handle that well. Women have sold themselves for an image, for money, for pleasure. The Porn Industry has given artists, models, actors and other people a method of gaining fame and fortune. Us addicts are trying to break away from it. We can't live with a screen or a toy to sate desires that we've lost control over.

    Divorce rates are at what in USA 2021? 50%. What happened? Hypergamy, Primal Programming, Scarcity, Fear of the Future, and broken emotions. Why is this important?

    In my previous Thread, "Men are Cultivators", I was simply saying that men in general, have the ability to gather power harder and faster than women. But thanks to this, we gathered too much, and waste too much.

    Addiction drains men of their power. Addiction that women hold, makes them seek for those that have little to nothing left. Women working with "Raw Power" look haggard, sad, exhausted, weakened, and a wreck. But when they find something that makes them feel "Whole", they act the same as demons of lore, "Whatever's yours, is now mine!".

    This is the same with Pornography, is all the generals, "Whatever's yours, is now mind!"

    Now that I've said the "Doom and Gloom" of this side, there has to be something great, yeah? Women, who know what to choose, know what to be, what to feel, turn their entire life from a "Full-Blown Insult", to a "Heavenly Sublime Compliment". But how? Some people will say the same thing here to us addicts, "Take responsibility", "Take Accountability", "Take Self-Respect".

    Gentlemen, we've been through this muck of Porn, and it cost us relationships harder than we've thought to ever encounter. Drained our power, our hope, our strength and ability to be a tad social. We've lost more money than we could of earned, journeys we could of taken, actions that we've regretted taking, or wish we've taken, all for a 10 minute cycle of pleasure.

    Ladies, forgive men that bowed down to porn. We only wished to feel some semblance of love, when it turns out to be lust that we've trained ourselves on. Some of us try to break away, but we keep turning back to it. Don't push us away with words or lack of attention, but push us away from pornography with benevolence, and respect. Don't shame us, because that's what the world wants you do. Don't nag us, because that makes us to never consider you a friend that we really need. Men are just as broken as you are, we just don't show it, till the right time, and the right trust given.

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