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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by STAR DUST, Nov 12, 2017.

  1. eliterexor

    eliterexor Fapstronaut

    Yeah sometimes it can trigger but I don't know why... Maybe it's depends of the girl we look?
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  2. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut

    This needs it's own thread :D

    I try not to stare at attractive women, I really do, and for the most part during the last few months that's been fine.

    But every few days, I see girls wearing 'short' shorts, and I don't apologise for looking a little longer than I should lol.

    If I worked out and walked around without a top.. I would not complain to any ladies who looked.. so I don't see the harm when they show off and I look :rolleyes:
  3. The women who do everything they can to draw attention to themselves - and then get all hissy if they catch you noticing... not the finer specimens of humanity, IMHO.
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  4. Sc8r51o1n

    Sc8r51o1n Fapstronaut

    There is a thread about this - the feels of oglling.
    Check it out.
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  5. They don't care for me to look them in the eye either.

    They're perfectly ok with attention from the men who turn them on, but the exact same thing from anybody else (doesn't look like an underwear model, or exhibit "dark triad" traits) is "creepy". The bottom 90% of men are supposed to just disappear.

    Sorry ladies - you don't get to police my thoughts.
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  6. Just A Male

    Just A Male Fapstronaut

    Not all women are whores. I’m just saying.
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  7. Lukas1234

    Lukas1234 New Fapstronaut

    Wow. This statement demonstrates exactly, what I have already experienced. However, it is no surprise that women realize that something is wrong with a person. A porn addicted person has built up the habit of looking at her butt or tits and is totally ignoring the character.
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  8. I wasn't speaking of "bottom 90%" in the financial sense. Nor did I say that these women are whores. Just that the same action elicits a very different reaction, based on the attractiveness of the male (on whatever scale). I think that's called "looks-ism". ;)
  9. Hitto

    Hitto Fapstronaut

    lol who cares I look at all of them and there are some really fine ones that's smile and look back and some act like you don't exist but it's all good before I use to put my self worth in attracting women but now I'm learning different things and have different hobbies so I don't get upset when they don't acknowledge me I'm not gonna force them to like me I know I'm a good person plus I've been told by girls who were friends or just acquaintances how I was attractive and how could I be single but back then I was still pmoing and had no confidence now I realize there is nothing to lose and everything to gain
    Last edited: Dec 12, 2017
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  10. FapFapFapNoMore

    FapFapFapNoMore Fapstronaut

    how do you know?
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  11. Because I've stared at women's butts from behind them and had them turn around and give me dirty looks.
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  12. why do you think dark triad features are attractive for women?
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    STAR DUST Fapstronaut

    I wouldn’t call the traits themselves attractive, but the possible succes that they bring can be. Being machavelianistic may play a part giving the ability to manipulate women I get what you want. Even a Narcicists egomania can at first glance be mistaken for confidence. But the psychopath leaves me clueless maybe the ability to shut out feelings which create a sense of detachment from outcome and non neediness.
  14. I think it is a form of despair to value such diseases. That does not mean that a narcissist can`t be successful on a superficial level. Of course he can have it, but he is not happy with it. And not his partner. I know a Borderliner-girl: viewed from the outside, her life is glamorous: it takes place on two continents; modelling, Parties blablabla. She is extremely sexy: but from the inside her life is hell ... And she uses (like most borderliners) her hot body and cute face only to get something she will never get. She isnt really what she seems to be - thats the moral of the Story - a superhot young "global player": but a lost soul. So it is as well with those guys some of these "become a alpha" idiots try to take as a model to get layed: we talk about serious sicknesses. Nothing else. there is NO fun into having a personailty disorder (not that you said that, im aware of it, but in times in which guys want to exloit some features of such sicknesses as some sort of blue-print to handle women its really necessary to say it over and over again).

    Btw.: That women dont want to wrong guys to stare at them is quite cool for me, although of course it as a hypocrite side too. But finally if you wanna send signals, to maybe attract mr right, you gotta live with the risk to attract others too. Nevertheless that doesnt mean they dont have the right to be upset. Im personally as well not really happy if i feel the glance of a gay guy in the sauna on me, or when a girl that i dont like tries to hit on me. For a "hot chick" this scenario happens each day more often then for most guys in their whole life. We talk about a different universe... I really really dont like how girls handle guys etc pp but one should see that side of the coin to understand better. Girls are under "permanent attack".
  15. {Ananta}

    {Ananta} Fapstronaut

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    they may give you theyre number but it well be fake number or they wont answer your calls or texts woman give numbers only to shake you off
  16. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

    Yes, I think you are right. Forget the number, just give her your business card instead... and forget about it. if she's interested, she'll call.
  17. {Ananta}

    {Ananta} Fapstronaut

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    business card, good idea ,
  18. {Ananta}

    {Ananta} Fapstronaut

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    when connecting with woman, phones, internet interactions arent gonna work , its about body chemistry, our pheromones interact , if you want something to happen you best make it happen when you first meet her,i actually havent tempted interacting with woman for dating purposes since i started the nofap ,you attract what you practice, since back then i was a pmo addict when i was pursuing woman most likey i ended up interacting with woman who always had a pmo addiction which means her mind is filled with lust an so her heart desired unrealistic men, probably the men they lusted over in the p videos , its hard for me to get back at it because in the past i only got rejected so that still sits in my heart,
  19. Mentor23144

    Mentor23144 Fapstronaut

    This is so true and such a small percentage of guys knows this. That's why I never meet women through social media, its just a waste of time. Have balls and approach her it will separate your from other guys so much and place you on much higher level compared to those internet stalkers.
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