Women Destroy the Lives of Real Men

If you are upfront with them beforehand and if you are able to end the relationship when it is necessary, then the onus is on the other person. I found that it helps to be completely truthful and not promote any undue expectations.
That being said, all of that did not help me in a former relationship of mine. What was agreed upon at the start as a casual relationship suddenly became laden with more expectations than I was prepared for. When I tried to end it, it caused a great deal of trauma and heartbreak (hers) and complete mistrust about anything a woman said or promised (on my part). It screwed up my relationships with two incredible women later on. Even though both of them said they only wanted a casual FWB relationship, I was very mistrustful and kept wondering when they were going to suddenly break out into declarations of everlasting love. Eventually my inability to believe that they really just wanted a FWB ruined both what we had in the bedroom and the friendship I had enjoyed with them prior to that.
Platonic friendships are wonderful

 

A real man will never be destroyed by a woman. Never forget

 

I know and normally I try to avoid him. What gets me is he is actually a pretty decent kid. But the moment he does not get his own way he throws a tantie and after all the screaming and yelling, he acts completely normal.

 

Barring some sort of personality disorder (which would be no one's fault but genetics) the burden for that kid is on his parents who likely spoil him/cave to his demands.

 

True story.

 

Idk why you're misquoting me. I didn't even read what you said. Bye.

 

You should treat others the way you'd like to be treated, is this how you want to be treated?

 

I don't care. I'm out anyway. You're the one to blame here not my problem if you feel bad

 

Why are you acting this way Anne?

 

I find it difficult to see how you could find happiness in yourself with the sort of generalisations made in the original post, with or without a partner.

 

^ Mmhmm. What he said.


I think what you mean to say, OP, is that women can destroy the success of men who are trying to become happy by themselves.
I think one needs to be okay with himself, and may even need to learn to love oneself in order to be truly happy. No amount of validation from a partner can cure an insecurity that's inside you. Learn to realize that no one is perfect, and society is flawed and tricks everyone into thinking that everyone else is superior except you.

 

She's really mean towards me, but I don't know why, was it something I said?

 

Idk, he gets on my nerves like crazy, he never understands what I talk about no marred how clear I am, and the fact that he changed what I said in his quote really pisses me off. And the fact that he keeps saying that I hate him when I don't, but he just keeps brushing me in the wrong way, is definitely one of the reason I don't feel good anymore here. I'm not coming to get pissed. I have better stuff to do than be misunderstood. Plus I know that I'm using strong words but I find it really unfair that I'm the one being called out NoBrainer, perhaps you missed the chat discussion but axy_david already had trouble with me and him misquoting me is the definitive thing that proves me that here is not my place, I don't understand yall anymore

Edit: washing my dirty laundry in public but ever since axy_david posted this weird messages on my profile I've been feeling super uncomfortable I'm sorry. Don't even mind me anyway cause again I'm out

 

Yeah, I missed whatever went on between you two. No need to take it personally Anne. I was just wondering why you were behaving this way towards axy_david...

 

It's my only defence, I can't let him act this way towards me and I can't either directly attack him so I prefer to ignore him and let him think he's done no wrong idgaf

 

I'm sorry that I keep saying that you hate me, but it's really hard not to feel this way when you talk about me being the reason of you not belonging here. If there is anything I can do to help you in this situation please tell me.
I do apologise if there was anything I said that made you unconformable, and will do so as many times as you wish.
I'm learning to accept you as you are every new day, even tho we have gone trough similar experiences we have chosen two different, if not opposing paths. Just because we are very different from each-other doesn't mean we can't both be active on the same forum. SO let's put our differences behind us and be a positive impact on this community together, what do you say?

 

Well said, sir.

 

No no, you don't get it, and I'm sorry you feel this way. It's not YOU that makes me want to get out, it's the general mentality, and all the debates, that are not bad in themselves but are violently toxic to me. It happened that something you said and did pushed me over the limit but that could have been anyone. Keep being yourself and don't mind what I say. I don't think you're a bad guy at all, I think you've got at least as much rage than me to get better but you express it in a polarized fashion than me. I'm going out anyway. I'm a month away from being 600 days clean I know for a crystal clear fact that I will never relapse because each day I want to watch porn and each day I don't do it, I could have relapsed legit a million times and I never will and I'm not useful anymore to others so there's no point in me staying. I'm too far into the reboot to relate to the pain and struggle of you and others.

 

OK, byebye, have a nice life!

 

Ah yes, I empathise with that. Go fourth and prosper Anne. Go and make something of yourself!