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Women im attracted to?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by sd1, Apr 10, 2020.

  1. Apr 10, 2020 #1
    sd1

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    This is more of a question. Basically i want to know after my reboot will the women that im attracted to/ sexually aroused by change? I ask because im 24 now and since ive started watching porn (around 12) about 70% of it has been like bbw and slightly bigger women porn. Ive had a few situations where ive been with a bigger girl and i was easily aroused and had no problem keeping an erection but on the other hand ive had situations with regular sized skinner females and i was attracted to them but not as aroused as if it was a bigger girl and i had more of problem keeping an erection. I want that to change i want to just be sexually aroused by whatever girl im attracted to and have my penis also wanting want my mind wants, just curious if anyone else has dealt with something similar and can give me some insight
     
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  2. Apr 11, 2020 #2
    sfmark12

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    I can relate, and yes definitely your attraction will change. I use to have the same attractions as you. I did jerk off a LOT to BBW women. And it made me get aroused by them too, quitting porn it seemed to change. I like girls who are active(fit, healthy women) no longer bigger ones.
     
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  3. Apr 11, 2020 #3
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    Thank god, when did you notice a change?
     
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  4. Apr 11, 2020 #4
    sfmark12

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    When I realize I can get hard by looking at a girl in the eyes(strong eye contact). Usually before it had to be depended on how your body looks if you could get my dick to move an inch. I am 2 years porn free so glad I don't feel that anymore...masturbation on the other hand, in the process of quitting that.
     
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  5. Apr 11, 2020 #5
    sd1

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    How long into your reboot did it take to get to that point? And would you say the masturbation without porn is hurting you?
     
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  6. Apr 11, 2020 #6
    sfmark12

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    A couple months cant give a real estimate. Yes masturbation without porn hurts me. Its as if I am robbed of myself. Low energy, tiredness, brain fog, no confidence, comes back with a quickness.
     
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    All i can say is when i stoped watching a bunch of porn for awhile some of the women i was interested in didnt seem to be that interesting and i thought i deserved better.
     
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  8. Apr 11, 2020 #8
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    same since ive been on my reboot im slowly getting disgusted with some of the women i once was aroused by
     
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  9. Apr 11, 2020 #9
    sd1

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    Definitely hope you can quit all of it together. I tried just quitting the porn but i still felt the same just masturbating so figured it was best to just quit all of it
     
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  10. Apr 12, 2020 #10
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    It honestly is the best quitting both all together.
     
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  11. Apr 12, 2020 #11
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    Yeah its like porn blinds us , Now i think to myself " What the hell was i thinking " it sometimes makes me laughf
     
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  12. May 6, 2020 #12
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    Dude I’m th same exact way . I think it’s because of porn because I’d watch ugly girls because it was more realistic
     
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