Women sex and violence (warning triggers)

ClaudeDuval

ClaudeDuval

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I hear a lot of women talk about "rape culture" in our society. The places where I see most latent "rape culture" are in movies, novels, and fiction that women adore and flock to in droves. 50 shades(women loved it), and all the other "romance novels" even though we all know they are just rapey pornography books where an animalistic man is sweeping a woman off her feet and overpowering her, etc. Some of them are even weirder and more disturbing but I won't get into that. You might say "Well that's not real rape that's fantasy" Right, were not talking about real rape were talking about a so called "rape culture" which could include fantasy books or movies.

Over the years I've spoke to several women(and women I have been with) who all said something along the lines of "I like being choked, hair pulled, smacked around while I am being blanked" or something similar, basically saying they like being dominated and "owned" while they're being blanked. One girl even mentioned being "able to orgasm much quicker while being choked"(women are more open with this kind of stuff in my experience). There was also an article posted about women seeking out more violent porn(I believe it was on FTND). My current GF even liked the idea of being tied up and smacked around in a sort of rape roleplay scenario. It started turning me on more and more due to hearing about it from women... I adopted this fetish and it escalated to weird fantasies... having my GF push me away during sex, I overpower her and hold her down while choking her, etc.

I can't take this "fight rape culture" thing seriously when so many women are neck deep in a so called "rape culture" and they seem to love it. They even support it with their own money... Look at how many of them love weird songs like Rhianna's "S&M" they think "ooh wow such a sexy song". LOL Now I'm stuck in it and that's how I ended up here, thanks ladies(kidding).
 
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BDSM is absolutely disgusting, but I wouldn’t call it full-on rape either. BDSM simply makes rape easier (which is why it’s common in BDSM communities compared to others) because a woman (or whoever) cannot fight back, and they rely purely on the intention of the guy/abuser/whatever. The woman consented to such practices.
 
MLMVSS said:
BDSM is absolutely disgusting, but I wouldn’t call it full-on rape either. BDSM simply makes rape easier (which is why it’s common in BDSM communities compared to others) because a woman (or whoever) cannot fight back, and they rely purely on the intention of the guy/abuser/whatever. The woman consented to such practices.
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I agree but it's a hard thing to break out of(fetishes are difficult to begin with) since so many women almost demand this kind of thing. Imagine telling someone you are having sex with "I don't want to do that, I don't feel comfortable with it" Lol Good luck not offending someone. I would obviously NEVER ever rape anyone but at the same time I don't think it's too healthy and sane.
 
MLMVSS said:
BDSM is absolutely disgusting, but I wouldn’t call it full-on rape either. BDSM simply makes rape easier (which is why it’s common in BDSM communities compared to others) because a woman (or whoever) cannot fight back, and they rely purely on the intention of the guy/abuser/whatever. The woman consented to such practices.
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Did you ever have this fetish?
 
[Not-PC warning] I definitely didn't understand why things like 50 Shades were so popular. Maybe it's just one of those fantasies they don't want actualized (fantasy retains control, but real rape is loss of control), or women just don't know what they want, or are unwilling to admit what they want. I also wonder how much it's due to feminism emasculating men, so it's satisfying some primal urge for strong men, but just surfacing in some unhealthy way. Also, it may well be some evolutionary artifact, as some research suggests women might actually conceive about twice as often from rape as consentual sex.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...ve-a-higher-pregnancy-rates-than-other-women/
 
Jason_Tesla_19 said:
[Not-PC warning] I definitely didn't understand why things like 50 Shades were so popular. Maybe it's just one of those fantasies they don't want actualized (fantasy retains control, but real rape is loss of control), or women just don't know what they want, or are unwilling to admit what they want. I also wonder how much it's due to feminism emasculating men, so it's satisfying some primal urge for strong men, but just surfacing in some unhealthy way. Also, it may well be some evolutionary artifact, as some research suggests women might actually conceive about twice as often from rape as consentual sex.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...ve-a-higher-pregnancy-rates-than-other-women/
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Thats interesting insight, i asked another female friend about it recently... i asked her if she was into it she said "absolutely". Seems like most women are... ive hardly heard of a woman NOT being into it to some degree. Its hard to break away from this sort of bdsm when women will act like you're not giving them what they need if you refuse. I know another woman who feels like theres something "missing" in her sex life because her BF is into vanilla sex. They almost demand it...
 
ClaudeDuval said:
Thats interesting insight, i asked another female friend about it recently... i asked her if she was into it she said "absolutely". Seems like most women are... ive hardly heard of a woman NOT being into it to some degree. Its hard to break away from this sort of bdsm when women will act like you're not giving them what they need if you refuse. I know another woman who feels like theres something "missing" in her sex life because her BF is into vanilla sex. They almost demand it...
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I wonder how many of these women secretly have PMO addictions. It's socially unacceptable for the most part for women to have porn addiction, but it is accepted and even encouraged by feminism for women to be "sexually liberated", so they're willing to admit to porn-induced fetishes. Another possibility is that they escalated into risky dopamine-inducing behaviors due to desensitization from vibrator use - men can't compete with a vibrator, so vanilla isn't cutting it anymore!
 
Jason_Tesla_19 said:
I wonder how many of these women secretly have PMO addictions. It's socially unacceptable for the most part for women to have porn addiction, but it is accepted and even encouraged by feminism for women to be "sexually liberated", so they're willing to admit to porn-induced fetishes. Another possibility is that they escalated into risky dopamine-inducing behaviors due to desensitization from vibrator use - men can't compete with a vibrator, so vanilla isn't cutting it anymore!
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I think most are porn addicts as well but lie about it. And you're right, thats why i forced my gf to throw out all of her toys. Its the equivalent of a guy using the "death grip". Overtime they get desensitized(even to the point where a tongue feels like nothing). That definitely could be a cause. Pmo/sex toys.
 
Nightbynight said:
Rape culture, another ridiculous notion forced down our throats.
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India certainly has a rape culture. Men are making money by raping women as someone else videos it. Then they go to stores that buy their videos and sells them. It's all out in the open and law enforcement does nothing to stop it. That's a rape culture.

In the USA I don't think women have it as bad as they want everyone to think. They ought to go to Italy, France, or Spain and see what the women have to put up with there. Openly harassed in public.

The stuff I saw in Turkey was really bad. I was with my friend's two underage daughters who were showing me around town and men would come right up to them and start touching their hair and calling them names as well as propositioning them. We had to aggressively tell these guys to go away.

Also it really burns me up that we see so many woman run after abusive loser men and then cry fowl after they get tired of being knocked around. There were plenty of signs the guy was a "bad boy" and abusive yet they choose to go with these guys. Then they want to play victim after they get tired of him.

No it's not right to be abusive to women ever. But FFS women, sometimes you're doing things that don't help your cause.
 
HopeForBrightFuture said:
In the USA I don't think women have it as bad as they want everyone to think. They ought to go to Italy, France, or Spain and see what the women have to put up with there. Openly harassed in public.
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Women in the USA are severely oppressed. On average, more women attend school than men, and they tend to receive better grades there. But School is an extremely oppressive institution full of rape culture and mental abuse and it should be dismantled. Women can stay at home and get half the house when they divorce their husband. They’re severely oppressed; they should obviously get the whole thing. They live there 24/7! They should never have an entire wall missing from their house.
 
MLMVSS said:
Women in the USA are severely oppressed. On average, more women attend school than men, and they tend to receive better grades there. But School is an extremely oppressive institution full of rape culture and mental abuse and it should be dismantled. Women can stay at home and get half the house when they divorce their husband. They’re severely oppressed; they should obviously get the whole thing. They live there 24/7! They should never have an entire wall missing from their house.
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LOL! Sarcasm noted. And to be honest I can easily slip into a long anti-woman rant since I do get fed up with American women. But there are good ladies out there and I think about them more than the aggravating ones that can't take their eyes off their cell phones for more than five minutes.

I'll just post positive things about American Women from now on in this thread.
 
I understand your point. But isn't it usual even for woman to choke, scratch or slap the ass of men? I mean, i know a few woman doing it and it has nothing to do with raping. And it is not just the last few years.
 
ClaudeDuval said:
Thats interesting insight, i asked another female friend about it recently... i asked her if she was into it she said "absolutely". Seems like most women are... ive hardly heard of a woman NOT being into it to some degree. Its hard to break away from this sort of bdsm when women will act like you're not giving them what they need if you refuse. I know another woman who feels like theres something "missing" in her sex life because her BF is into vanilla sex. They almost demand it...
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ClaudeDuval said:
I hear a lot of women talk about "rape culture" in our society. The places where I see most latent "rape culture" are in movies, novels, and fiction that women adore and flock to in droves. 50 shades(women loved it), and all the other "romance novels" even though we all know they are just rapey pornography books where an animalistic man is sweeping a woman off her feet and overpowering her, etc. Some of them are even weirder and more disturbing but I won't get into that. You might say "Well that's not real rape that's fantasy" Right, were not talking about real rape were talking about a so called "rape culture" which could include fantasy books or movies.

Over the years I've spoke to several women(and women I have been with) who all said something along the lines of "I like being choked, hair pulled, smacked around while I am being blanked" or something similar, basically saying they like being dominated and "owned" while they're being blanked. One girl even mentioned being "able to orgasm much quicker while being choked"(women are more open with this kind of stuff in my experience). There was also an article posted about women seeking out more violent porn(I believe it was on FTND). My current GF even liked the idea of being tied up and smacked around in a sort of rape roleplay scenario. It started turning me on more and more due to hearing about it from women... I adopted this fetish and it escalated to weird fantasies... having my GF push me away during sex, I overpower her and hold her down while choking her, etc.

I can't take this "fight rape culture" thing seriously when so many women are neck deep in a so called "rape culture" and they seem to love it. They even support it with their own money... Look at how many of them love weird songs like Rhianna's "S&M" they think "ooh wow such a sexy song". LOL Now I'm stuck in it and that's how I ended up here, thanks ladies(kidding).
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The attraction to dominant men is deeply ingrained in women. From an evolutionary standpoint, the women who got with dominant guys survived. In early tribal societies, men would raid other villages and straight up steal women from other tribes. This type of shit doesnt fly today and isnt PC at all but all the women I've been with said they get turned on when a man takes control or displays dominance. I've never gotten into BDSM as its too weird but all women seem to respond to male dominance because males have been more dominant int terms of their interaction with women through most of history. Feminist say the shit they say solely because they are brainwashed but they still cant fight their attraction to real men. Any man who listens to that shit is only doing themselves a disservice.
 
HopeForBrightFuture said:
LOL! Sarcasm noted. And to be honest I can easily slip into a long anti-woman rant since I do get fed up with American women. But there are good ladies out there and I think about them more than the aggravating ones that can't take their eyes off their cell phones for more than five minutes.

I'll just post positive things about American Women from now on in this thread.
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I don't date typical American women, my GF is Salvadoran American. Pretty sad that my fellow white American women are so toxic I can't even date them... lmao
 
The Unfadeable said:
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The attraction to dominant men is deeply ingrained in women. From an evolutionary standpoint, the women who got with dominant guys survived. In early tribal societies, men would raid other villages and straight up steal women from other tribes. This type of shit doesnt fly today and isnt PC at all but all the women I've been with said they get turned on when a man takes control or displays dominance. I've never gotten into BDSM as its too weird but all women seem to respond to male dominance because males have been more dominant int terms of their interaction with women through most of history. Feminist say the shit they say solely because they are brainwashed but they still cant fight their attraction to real men. Any man who listens to that shit is only doing themselves a disservice.
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Agree with this post 110%
 
I wonder what the increase in "rape culture" has to do with the desire for the novelty trap behind more men being "Coolidge effected" by a screen and losing testosterone in droves... Could they overall be Connected?
Only a small percentage of men are smart enough to reboot to realize that there is a imbalance.
Why wouldn't the problem be with men, as a group, actually being less manly?
And then therefore, the problem with women be, as a group, they sought a overcorrection by seeking hyermanlyness?
Just a thought.
 
Kenzi said:
I wonder what the increase in "rape culture" has to do with the desire for the novelty trap behind more men being "Coolidge effected" by a screen and losing testosterone in droves... Could they overall be Connected?
Only a small percentage of men are smart enough to reboot to realize that there is a imbalance.
Why wouldn't the problem be with men, as a group, actually being less manly?
And then therefore, the problem with women be, as a group, they sought a overcorrection by seeking hyermanlyness?
Just a thought.
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That's an interesting perspective, I think you might be right in certain cases. I've seen something similar in a couple... A man being somewhat "limp wristed" and docile so his GF began craving even more dominate characteristics and even getting angry/jealous after hearing how I acted in the bedroom(more dominate). Good input kenzi.
 
Sarah W. said:
Not to mention the effect porn has on the human brain, especially when you're severely addicted. I'm pretty sure a lot start out "normal" with none of those desires, until they hit the slippery slope of needing/seeking more hardcore porn just like men do because it's no longer enough.

To me wanting to be phisically choked, slapped around, gaged and all that stuff isn't normal and shouldn't be, I mean sure there's kinks and stuff but how can any of those be healthy? Porn influenced me in such a horrible way that being so severely addicted I used to actually fantasise about being raped and things like that for the longest time and am still trying to break those thoughts.

Pmo addiction can make both genders want disgusting desires when they go to far deep, so I wonder what most people would be like if everyone gave up porn.
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This is just a testament to how many women are actually addicted to porn but hide it or pretend that their desires aren't influenced by porn... So many seek violent sex because thats mostly what is in porn. And there is data showing women often seek out more violent rapey porn after getting tired of the "vanilla" stuff. I understand your problem completely, I fell into the trap of "rape roleplay" as well... Not exactly a normal thing. It's hard as a man when so many women desire such things and its getting worse... I saw a satirical meme recently and it had a woman saying something like "are you going to rip my face off and wear it as a mask, or am I going to have to find a real man?!" Lol Basically depicting how many women want extreme/violent sex now days.
 
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