Women tempting intentionally

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  1. Little Bo Peep

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    I'd say when they go out shirtless and even tight or small shorts, but honestly that's seen as normal so we can't complain. Modesty only applies to women, because while there are some things they can do for the most part everything is excused because they are a man in the first place.
     
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  2. Yeah, I think even both of those are excused most of the time by them saying they were too hot or its more comfortable or something. But for some reason when women are too hot and uncomfortable, we are expected to just suffer for the sake of keeping men from lust or something.
     
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  3. Little Bo Peep

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    Nah but we got options girl, sweat pants and baggy shirts. ;)
     
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  4. Look, all you girls have to do is gain 100 pounds and wear dirty sweatpants with some wear holes in them.
    Or maybe a moomoo (idk how it’s spelled)
    Nobody will accuse you of immodesty :p
    (End sarcasm)
    I saw someone I thought had a pot belly but it turned out it was her boobs. No joke.
    No bra but I doubt people called her a slut or immodest.
     
  5. People with opinions go around bothering one another...
     
  6. Well a right shirt that shows muscles is quite hot or a tight jeans. If a good looking guy has a on shirt. Also a highclass suit looks sexy on some men. Good quality clothes with a good fit and of course it’s the guy in it...and I guess u r right. A girl does not need to stand out and can look sexy already
     
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  7. Well obviously men can look attractive, but that's not provocative. A man wearing a nice suit or even a tight shirt isn't considered "slutty" or immodest.
     
  8. I find it truly provocative and arousing. But not slutty yes
     
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  9. Well, most of society does not find those things provocative.
     
  10. AngelofDarkness

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    I agree with the other posts that a lack of modest clothing at the gym generally simply comes with the territory. It's like going to the beach and seeing people in swimwear. A gym is a place where people do physical exercise, so for practical reasons, the less fabric and the more breathable the fabric, the better. Although I would think breathable doesn't necessarily mean skin-tight. I'm sure there are sweatpants made of breathable fabric, and I'm sure there are yoga pants that aren't made of breathable fabric, as there are probably also pants that are not as tight as yoga pants and not as loose as sweatpants. I personally wouldn't have a problem and actually would call it appropriate for myself to wear a T-shirt and sweatpants to work out. But as also pointed out in previous posts, women's modest sportswear is quite limited when it comes to fashionability. Which doesn't have to be an excuse for immodest clothes, but objectively speaking, whether male or female, young or old, some sense of fashionability is natural, even if if it comes with the sacrifice of loosing some "modesty". That being said, a gym is also a public, confined space where people do physical exercise, so I would think some people, male and female, also dress to show off their body, not necessarily to look sexually provocative but to show their achievements of working out so hard. Which might also serve as motivation for some people to achieve the same.

    Now I can only speak from my own experience, but I personally have never considered going to the gym to exercise, unless I would want to become a professional body builder or build heavy muscle one way or another. I personally prefer keeping active by going for a run in the park, riding my bike, going for a swim or simply exercising in the comfort of my own home, where I'm "free" to wear anything and do anything, at anytime. Maybe that could be something for you to consider as well, at least until you feel confident enough to have learned to deal with your triggers. I've seen people pretty much build their own gym in their own home, depending on how sophisticated you want or need it to be (a yoga mat to do crunches on can already be enough). You can get all kinds of different weights and/or other equipment for your own home, which I'm sure, depending on where you buy it, will pay off in the long run, considering the monthly fees for a gym membership. There are numerous YouTube videos offering all kinds of more or less professional advice on all kinds of exercise- and weight-lifting-techniques and tips for motivation. I'm no expert on any of this and I'm sure that there are many different factors (your own physical goals, your own preferences, financial etc) to be considered as to the decision of working out at the gym vs. working out at home/outdoors, but if the need for being mostly trigger-free, at least for the time being, is able to outweigh those factors for you, it could be worth a try. I hope this helps.
     
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  11. Jackb97

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    I think women were sexier in the 50s now its just showing their tits all around town. Why can't we just get a little sweaty over a little show of an ankle.
     
  12. Phoenix234

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    science is experience event examination of it ahalyses of it and conclusions.
    I am not with science always as there is the part of conclusions I don’t necessarily agree always. Conclusions are what someone in his limited capacity of thinking and understandthing of the work and how everything is thinks.
    This is extremely uninteresting as this can be way off. History has millions of examples of conclusions that are way off.

    The point I trust 100% is the whole thing of event experience examination and analyzes. The conclusion. Especially the Philosophie I really don’t care what someone thinks and thinks it’s smart or clear. It just isn’t. I think therefore I am is just so total bullshit for example and nothing but witnessing the narrow limited mind des Kartes had.

    Science therefore is also not the god that we must obey too. Only to some extend with the part of the conclusion to leave open. It might be in reality different.

    So now back to what we discuss. Porn is just porn. Not good nor bad. In general development it has its justification as everything that is there. It cannot be erased fought eradicated...lol....it’s there and it’s there for a reason
    9 in 10 men watch. I think 5 in 10 women. So there is a need a desire a force at work. We can’t contro, it with the priest 100 years ago in church who says it’s bad and everyone agrees and it is taboo and millions of things happened hidden. No not psibble anymore. It’s coming to light. It’s not new. It always was there. Now this force is unfolding in many ways we did not know before. Names are created. Gamgbang Bdsm threesome bukkakke deepthroat ect. All things and ways how men and women can live it and express their desire. It goes further. It shows it’s becoming normal. Because it is normal. Social media makes it possible that it can happen much easier. And for many ,ore than before. Bdsm was terribly looked at until a decade ago. Now fifty shades of grey is the great hit. Why because it’s in people. It can’t stay in the taboo. It has to be integrated and become natural part of life. THEN!!! porn is not needed anymore as how people arexwhat they want and what they desire is clear.

    Domination seems so normal nowadays. Just as submission. Might corekate with 95%!! Of men if you do the sex polygraph react with desire when a girl gets tied up!! 95%. That’s almost all men? Why because it’s in them.
    There is a corekating womej Statistik I don’t want to bring up here.

    Bdsm is healthy science found out. The ones that practice have proven better relations. Are healthier! Makes a lot of sense to me because they let out what they have inside and we learn that this is good and healthy.
    Sexual violence went down! Not up while porn consumption went way up.

    These are all interesting things that tell us a lot about us and how we are and what we did not know. Not what we want it to be or what religion toldcus how it should beor how all moral freaks think it must be!!: lol...(the best ones furthest away..) none of that.
    BUT how it is and how we are.

    I am convinced there is a lot coming. A lot clearing and according to the findings we can learn a lot improve a lot become way better more honest humans. That’s evolution.

    Wow that became long. But had to get out.
     
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    hanks dhalia for the likes!
     
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    hank you dhalia. Like your comment. Yes how happy it can make one if used right and how terrible and ugly it can be
     
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    I agree. You should! If you feel and are. You should. That’s beautiful! I lie your fresh comments dhalia.
     
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    Dhalia. We have a similar understanding. Tell me more what you feel that there is more! I experienced but am not able to hold it. I work myself out I feel from the porn hook it had. Maybe the same is possible for you
     
  17. AngelofDarkness

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    I'm guessing that it was actually part of the sex appeal back then to not see much skin or shape, so it would have to be imagined somewhat and seemed like something more unique to every individual woman.
     
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  18. goodnice

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    LMAO Dhalia. You are something else
     
  19. Phoenix234

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    u guys are a good example of how negativity can group together in a false sense of righteousness and think you can slender a person. Like witch hunts in middle age! Same mindset. I did not think I would have to go I to such battles here. But that’s all quite poor.

    She states what she perceives and feels and shares it openly. What’s your bro lemme with this statement. Other than you decided to fight her because she delivers very good but for you inconvenient points because they don’t match your frame of thinking It’s quite good statement.
     
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