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  1. Bulbmin

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    Please don't use my age to disregard everything I've said. In fact, I already knew that South Africa has a high rate of violence against women (and men for that matter, especially in prisons).

    Also, I agree that men shouldn't talk to women in an abusive way but women shouldn't talk to men that way either (it happens way more often than you think).I also see that what he said to you could have been meant in a jokingly manner (I already know you don't understand this but I do.) Although he should've got to know you better before he said it, but again, he has learned this now and I don't see a reason to hold a grudge. I understand more than you think and more importantly, I understand him. It doesn't look like you do. And just because you're older than me doesn't mean you have more understanding about Gingko than me. If you still don't understand why he said what he said to you, I'd be happy to explain it to you in a more comprehensive way. I just need to know you will be reading my explanation with an open-minded perspective. Sorry, if I'm being condescending in any way, I just wish to explain and clarify.
     
  2. December

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    Look kid, I made my decision. Drop it.
     
  3. Bulbmin

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    Wow, I actually thought you just might be open-minded. I was wrong.
     
  4. Ferdydurke

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    The only reason to state what age Bulbmin is is indeed to disregard everything he says. I myself don't know what it means if someone 'only' is 15. Does that for instance mean I might have agreed with everything he said until I came to know he was 'only' 15? What does that realization even mean? Nothing, it's just an excuse to end this discussion, which should be a dialog in the first place.

    And it doesn't help to make this thread about being pro or contra rape (that's absurd) or pro or contra this Gingko. Why not? Because when we do, all posts will be divided in those pro or contra categories and all the 'pro's' wouldn't be helpful because they collide with your thoughts (and will make this whole thread useless, as it is now) and all the 'contra's' wouldn't be useful because they just underscore what you said. If you post on a forum you shouldn't play it out as a polemics (women against men, adults against kids)

    That's also the problem with this 'rape culture' it doesn't make a problem insightful it even makes thinking about it superfluous. Think about it, what if you completely agree with what 'rape culture' says about how we life etc. etc. , what can you 'add' to that. Nothing, you can just underscore it or give more examples, like Gingko (he couldn't do otherwise we live in this thing called rape-culture). Well then it's out of your power and nothing can be done against it. But the only thing out of control here is this idea where everything is related to 'male dominance' and even rape. NoFap is about the change you can make for yourself. I think we learn here how to stop fapping and watching porn, not in the first place because it is bad for how we view women and sex, but for ourselves in the first place, because we don't like what we became. And we do care. So take some responsibility and read what others have said about your accusations.
     
  5. Ella-Rose

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    December has human rights like anyone of us on those forums. Being respectful of the other is one important detail to observe. This thread should be closed by now, and we shall move on. Like Freddy stated, we weren't there so we had no relevant perspectives from both sides but we should respect both sides. But since you are a man over +45 years old, what makes you think you understand women more than a 15 years old boy, Freddy? You are not built like us and you don't understand our emotions and feelings. Your attraction for women will always blind your thoughts. I now wonder what are your real intentions on those forums :confused:
     
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  6. Squeaky Soul

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    He was defending December... Why you gotta be like that? That's not very nice to assume that. You don't understand his feelings or emotions, so how do you know his attraction to women will always blind him? How do you know that they even were blinding him?

    He was just sticking up for December... nothing to it.

    ~Squeaky Soul
     
  7. Ella-Rose

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    Freddy was defending December as I was. Noone has the right to force December to do something she thinks is not right for her. I do approve what she had written. You took one of my paragraphs out of its context. Freddy is the only man here that I trust and since he's been a good help for me for weeks, I will also defend him and will not let anyone say bad things about him. To conclude, I know his feelings and emotions. But he understands the meaning of my comment and why I trigger him, especially now that it is time for him to do something. I still believe that, like Freddy said, we went far beyond what this thread was about. Look after yourself Squeaky Soul :)
     
  8. Squeaky Soul

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    Thank you,

    I think I am just confused??? What happened? I thought you were mad at Freddy :)

    I agree, I will stop posting in this thread.

    ~Squeaky Soul
     
  9. Bulbmin

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    I won't be posting in this thead anymore either since December is not going to respond, but to clarify:
    I am not contra-December. Although, I don't agree with her decision, that doesn't mean I am against her.

    I also thank the ones who understand that my age shouldn't play a factor in this discussion.
     
  10. December

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    Thanks for understanding (for those who actually did) but I agree that this thread should be closed/deleted. It keeps getting more and more ridiculous.
     
  11. Immor

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    This has been hard to follow with the essential first post deleted .. not cool.
    I disagree with deleting the thread and posts. So what if it has gone off topic and not everyone agrees? This is one of the more interesting threads, showing differing viewpoints of people here and such.

    @Bulbmin: There is a reason young people are not taken serious - they are usually naive and unexperienced. Thinking that everyone is a good person like you is naive. You may have to learn the hard way some day.

    If it was meant as a joke, then it was a damn stupid one in my opinion and he deserves what he got anyway.
     
  12. Squeaky Soul

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    I read your warning :)

    I had suggested that they get rid of it, but no, they didn't. I said in a previous post that I thought this was inappropriate.

    ~Squeaky Soul
     
  13. Bulbmin

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    I agree with Immor, this thread doesn't need to be deleted. I would like to continue to discuss with Immor on this thread and I can't do that if this is deleted. (Yes, PM's could work but then others won't be able to input their views.)

    @Immor I private messaged you but I decided the discussion would best be carried out here:

    There wasn't a good reason for them not to take me seriously. You should take someone seriously based on how they act, not based on their age.

    To your second paragraph: Africans, in general, have a different sense of humor than Americans and Europeans. So no, I don't think he deserved what he got. This is basically what I was getting at with my point about culture earlier.
     
  14. Immor

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    @Bulbmin:
    Thanks for the message, i might have not noticed this being active without it.

    I agree, people shouldn't disregard someone's argument because of their age. What i am saying is that i can understand why they do it in this case.

    The different culture argument got me too.. By now however, I got it from a South-African that joking about punching someone's teeth in is not ok there either. And to be honest, if you think about it, believing there could be a culture where that kind of thing is considered funny just goes to show how gullible you and me both are.

    So you have been defending someone who is
    A. a liar
    B. willing to discredit his people's culture to justify his actions
    among other things.
     
  15. axiomaticcherry

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    It's not OK
     
  16. axiomaticcherry

    axiomaticcherry New Fapstronaut

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    Crazy.

    Porn addicts know no boundaries.
     
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