Women's Clothing

Yeah man I don't mind that but there should be limits.In the west more and more women have no limits. Ok they are free to choose what they want to wear.But there are a lot of women that wear shorts where butt cheeks are shown . And also a lot of really young children are forced to dress in a sexual way for profit for their parents(go check melodyofficial she is only 11).Actions have consequences women these days are allowed to do anything walk outside almost naked while in some countries man are forbidden to sit with our legs spread.

 

You know I just threw at least 10 pairs of worn panties and 2 pairs of worn tights in a bin this morn on my way to work... Im attempting to give this fetish up for the 2nd time... All I think about is woman's underwear so time again to try get rid and get back to a sex life that's normal.

 

I love how y'all argue about wherever God exists/Jesus exists or no, or how things he did are real or not. I think it was all just made up so people with lower level of thinking could just be slaves of church and pray for their God.
My philosophy is - do good, don't do bad. I mean, yeah, Bible is cool because of it - it makes people more calm, it connects you to your so called God. I mean, can't tell it exists or not. Truth is - we don't know. I think we don't really need to know, cause universe is too big for us. Even a grass stem has rivers and civilizations of cells, tiny organisms. So why are we even trying to find something so enormous and maybe not even existing? Let's get real in this one. We are tiny, tiny, tiny ants that run around and think we are important. We buy suits, dresses, cars, houses and we think we are special, when in reality what matters is our minds. They matter. And to compare - all these dresses, suits and as I mentioned - cars, houses etc., - they mean maybe 0.000001%, when our minds are greater and to us they have to mean all 100%. But to universe one mind is maybe like 0.0001%. So let's think about ourselves as Gods of our own lives, not something unknown. People have professionaly brainwashed the ones with lower levels of thinking, and they've done it successfully.
I'm happy that we haven't been brainwashed by devil himself so easily yet. Yes, it happens daily, but it's not like with all that God stuff.
God won't make your sins just go away, it won't make you happier or feel better - you do. Connect to the ground, earth, mud, grass, snow - the universe, goddamnit and then enjoy your tiny universal minutes on this ball of mud.

My theory why we have so much problem is - because we exist. We made up hell, we made up paradise. We made Devil and we made God. We made our problems. And since first human appeared, first problems started happening.

Oh, and that - "I haven't seen it so it doesn't exist" or "prove it then I'll believe" is just childish. Table moves, so does lamp, mirror and a lots of different things. Simple science, but we are just so stubborn we keep on being like kids and just stick out our stinky tongues and spit shit.

Anyways, take care.

 

I didn't say any insult. You for sure has said things like "arsehole".

It's not about me only, men and women who don't agree with you are more constructive, they brought contribution to the thread. And all you did was trying to attack me instead of contributing to the subject.

What actual facts do you have to share instead of ad hominems and emotional negative projections, and your pricked conscience perhaps, to back up your own opinion ?

 

Is it not contradictory? You don't care what we choose, but there must be limit? You no mind what you see but then you think women should not dress like that? I do not understand.

No problem here as I said, why the West is so bad supposedly? Are you talking about that singer? She from Brazil, not West.

 

Well people also have freedom of speech.Yet if they say the wrong thing they will get punished(losing a job,getting expelled for college etc.)It is not contradictory as as stated above I don't have a problem with women wearing skirts or shorts.The problem is when they show to much. Ok you are from japan do women there wear things that show parts of their ass.I don't mind anything in moderation but actions do have consequences

 

If actions have consequences, then let them do what they want, and the consequences will occur. That's how life works. You can't control what other people do.

 

Whoaaaaa there, hold up. I just saw this quote from Purity Power, and please do NOT use my thread to support your views. I am NOT with you, on this or anything else. Thanks.

I value modesty, but that doesn't mean I agree with the attitude these men have that they need to control what women wear, and acting like their issues with lust are all our fault. As I said before, I'm attracted to women too, and I know it's my responsibility not to lust after them if they're wearing something I find sexy.

Especially when literal sweat pants and tshirts doesn't seem to be enough to be considered modest by some people here. Women just can't do anything right. You'll blame us for your own problems no matter what we do, so stop pretending that if we wear what you want us to, suddenly you'll take responsibility for your own actions.

 

I am not trying to control anyone I just said that I don't approve that kind of clothing in public.But I am not forcing anyone to dress a certain way.

 

That desensitization that occured throughout the years as women's fashion went sexier is an interesting point: how is it a good thing when the fashion now start to sexualize kids, and events start to pop up to discuss around the age of consent (France doesn't have one for example, so if a kid gets molested, they can not defend themselves in court, and pedophiles can grow somehow). It's that same sexual desensitization that happens in the porn industry that push people doing hardcore session or whatnot degrading even more themselves in professional lust all to maintain the novelty in order to keep the consumer ADDICTED. Who knows where that novelty quest can lead our current desensitized sexualized society ? I'm just defending an idea that is honorable and moral and healthy, that's it. I don't seek to "control" people it's silly. But to inform on a real matter. And they decide from that point.

There's this guy in Proverbs 7 who's been approached by an adulterous woman "with the atire of a harlot" as the scriptures say, she "convinced him with the flattering of her lips" and he starts to follow her "as a lamb goes to the slaughter" and suddenly an arrow pierces him through his liver, it says "in her house are the chambers of death". Now I know not all women are murdering adulteresses but overall it's a great warning to remind us of how dangerous lust and its industry might be for us.

 

Yes, it is a powerful message about resisting lust. Which is exactly what Bo Peep advocates for as well: resisting lust. If a woman is just wearing regular clothes, not being a harlot who is leading men to their death by luring them with their sexuality, then they are doing nothing wrong. It's the man's responsibility to resist lust.

 

And it's women's responsibility to not play the harlot

and control their lust just like men.

Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness. -Proverbs 30:20

 

WOW, did you really just say that?!! What happened to you between Page one and this Page? (tldr)

so true

When I first read this, I confused who wrote it and I thought it would be ironic. So funny when you read it as an ironic statement! (Sorry @EXPONENTIALLY)

Now, after I was lured to this thread and into posting, I COULD tell you my opinion on this matter. But it‘s not very exciting anyway (my opinion) – just some average in-the-middle point-of-view.
So I‘ll just say this: I still think porn is the problem (off off-topic, sorry). More precisely: the addictiveness of porn.

I may have seen some alluring women in sexy dress and make-up on the streets. And I may have had some unclean thoughts. I don‘t know whose fault it is – mine, the womens‘, Gods‘ or the Devils‘.

But one thing never happened for sure: I never clicked with a mouse on a real women. It were just pixels. Everytime and always pixels. Damn you wicked pixels!

(oh shit! They will tear this passage apart, for sure!)

 

Yeah, I did. It was relevant to what I was responding to. If you read things then you can usually understand them through context.

 

I realised just now how indeed beautiful it looks.

 

Fun fact: I fell into PMO at 6yo with female underwear magazines that were casually put on the living room table. And women's sexy outfits in music clips and such got me sustaining it throughout primary school.

It rings some interesting bells huh ?

 

Yeah, again, this just sounds like he's blaming women for his own porn addiction.

The first part is clearly his parent's fault. The second is his own, for lusting and not controlling his own thoughts. None of that is women's fault.

 

It's part and parcels of an industry capitalizing on lust and it has definetly impacted women's fashion to feed it faster

And how do you know NOT EVERY BOY OR GIRL has experienced my type of case ? It's worse nowadays

 

Because things that encourage (medias), allure (fashion, etc.), and push (seductive ways) me to be addicted to harmful behaviour are to be identified as destructive and to be avoided for the better in my life, especially since abstaining from such is going against the grain currently downhere, it's essential to prevent the subconscious hammer from hitting me in order to be clear and peaceful in my recovery, as well as armed with the right knowledge and motives, considering a relapse happens mentally at first.

Overall, I don't seek to "blame" but to remind myself of the important liberating truth.

For example Instagram: many have reported on how devastating it can be to their recovery, because usually girls on Instagram flaunt their body parts amplified already with a suggestive fashion, along with the make up and everything, and some of them just make money out of it promotting some products or whatnot, so it's the same scheme that porn uses in the sense that it profits from the arousal to keep their clients addicted, individuals seduced and reduced to numbers on a targetted traffic for a particular website and such.

As a man, I appreciate a woman's beauty, but I don't want to be enslaved and consumed by the very thing she weaponized against me to get her money. And I don't want to be too much triggered by another man's wife's beauty either by respect, and not wanting to cause trouble within a couple and not wanting bitterness for me as well.

 

I could care less about modesty tbh. It all just seems like keeping up appearances and I most of the women that went home with me when I was dating didn’t wear anything revealing. I definitely think e-girls are manipulative though. I’d never give one money because why do they get to make 6 figures just for existing?