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Womens Reactions To NoFap

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by takingthejourney, Oct 17, 2020.

  1. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys been on NoFap for about a year and a half seen great improvements and have an active dating life. My thing is since not fapping for long times longest streaks 9 weeks when i do release a load i get two reactions. The female is either impressed and does'nt mind the semen on her and is happy by the big load. Or i get the girl that runs into the shower and says something like "omg i never seen that much" "why is it so much" you cum alot" "do you have kids" Some girls i see again and some i dont even if the sex was pretty good. My first 9 week streak it was all over the place on her stomach got in her hair the girl said she was happy i came by and i never heard from her. Another girl after 3 weeks streak got it on her breast and hair (she went in the bathroom giving me the death stare, then came out giving me the death stare saying i cum alot) said she felt dirty nasty and she wanted to go home and take a shower we were in a hotel. Im started to think that getting my load all over them is not a good idea and they get grossed out.

    Some real freaky chicks like it but i guess the average girls dont. Anybody have any experience with this. Do you think im making the right choice because i actually had a chick mad at me that i didnt finish on her because my load was so big so maybe i should communicate more with them or finish in condom if i can or in shower idk. What are your thoughts or experience with having huge loads on NoFap and how your partner feels about this.
     
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  2. Branchman

    Branchman Fapstronaut

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    Comunication is the key.
    You should warn that this post has triggers.
     
  3. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    Thanks and what do you mean by triggers
     
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  4. Branchman

    Branchman Fapstronaut

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    Something that turns you on, or makes you horney.
    At least in my case reading this turns me on. I've noticed that even if I am reading scientific articles related to sexual stuff, I get a little bit turned on.
     
  5. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    ok where do i warn about the triggers
     
  6. PeterGrip

    PeterGrip Fapstronaut

    In the title bro. Yeah I got a bit triggered too.
     
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  7. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    sorry
     
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  8. I would avoid talking about shooting your load on women.
     
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  9. bidorm

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    yeah i got a little triggered too...
     
  10. Branchman

    Branchman Fapstronaut

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    Why?
     
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  11. Oliver Gunter

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    Maybe you shouldn't nut on them at all. They are probably creeped out because this is not the norm, not because of the amount of sperm.
     
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  12. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    You might have a point but what is the norm? when your pulling out you either nut on a chick belly, butt, breast or in her mouth. I will admit sometimes i could of finished in the condom i give you that
     
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  13. Oliver Gunter

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    Actually I'm just guessing, but I think nutting in the condom is more common. You could ask them what the problem was :D
     
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  14. takingthejourney

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    it depends if your not using a condom most girls dont mind some on the stomach or butt but i guess if im using one i should just just finish in the rubber because if not it leaves them a mess. Some just hop in the shower and say wow that was alott but one girl was real disgusted and was mad at me
     
  15. Different Built

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    no one needs to know about your sexual experiences man
     
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  16. we men on nofap with good streaks and no pm0 have proberly an bigger load than 99.99% of all males in the world, i might even scare them off :D
     
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  17. p1n1983

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    You are rigth, so if you do this on the first dates you are going to get a lot of woman pissed at you. Is not about the amount, is about the fact that they are no into that. Some really despite that so don't be rude and do it against their will. You also can get into trouble if the girl take it really bad.

    You can do it to her, she is asking for it. You have her permission.

    Next time ask if you can do it, if she like it she is going to say yes rigth away. if she hesitate or say no, then she probably don't like it.. so don't do it (keep it inside your condom).
     
  18. takingthejourney

    takingthejourney Fapstronaut

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    Yeah your right i lost a lot of females like this
     
  19. Trobone

    Trobone Fapstronaut

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    Or at a minimum ask beforehand
     
  20. Andrewdrummer2

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    @takingthejourney just explain to the girl that you are a big load shooter because your on nofap before engaging in the act cuz then theyll maybe be ready for it
     

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