Hey guys i was just wondering your thoughts. my whole life i've been taught that woman are attracted to men who get a lot of attention from other woman. men who have healthy sex lives. so i get really conflicted and confused because nofap is saying. abstain from all that and you will have better success with woman. won't these woman be able to tell i haven't had sex on 4 months? isn't that a turnoff? i feel needy... reason i'm asking is cause i keep turning down casual sex with a few woman because this site has told me it will lead to being more attractive. but so far i just regret not going out and having. some fun. should i keep abstaining from casual sex? will this really lead to me being more attractive? it just feels like the longer i wait, the more woman will be able to see. i'm a guy who doesn't get any physical touch or attention from woman... what if my reboot takes a year? more? won't woman smell my desperation?