Working on sex positivity

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by NF2019, May 17, 2019.

  1. NF2019

    NF2019 New Fapstronaut

    Hi, I’m a 34 year old bisexual male, living and working in Japan. I am successful in my work and am much loved in my social circles, but I feel like in the bedroom I am prone to unhealthy practices and fantasies.

    I have a long history with PMO and have discovered the deeper I go down the rabbit hole the more depraved things I end up stumbling upon. At the end of the day I’m not at all interested in anything overly kinky and love intimate, romantic and reciprocal (mostly vanilla) sex. More often than not after PMO I have to quickly close all windows and regret the experience most times.

    This last area in my life I feel really could be improved. I’m wondering if that will lead to benefits in other areas too. I don’t find NoFap difficult although I’ve only tried it for the past week or so properly.

    Do people block porn sites in case they are tempted? What are some good ways of channeling sexual energy that have worked for people?
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

    Welcome! I'm glad you're here. I'm sorry no one welcomed you sooner.

    I have a filter in the web server that helps keep out porn, but that only does so much. I also use Covenant Eyes accountability software. Again, that only does so much. Beyond those, it is important to keep busy and keep thinking and praying and reflecting. Below this post is a link to some things that have helped me. Keep coming back!
  3. Raging Bull

    Raging Bull Fapstronaut

    hi @NF2019 i hope you're still on this site. i think being on nofap gives us more self-confidence and makes us more comfortable in our skin. feel free to personal message me if you want to talk more. this is a great website! i encourage you to start your own daily journal on here too
  4. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut


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