Worried about upcoming date.

So I'm exciting for my upcoming date with my boyfriend, but I'm also worried. This is the first date we are having since I started rebooting from PMO. Before we use to be very active in our sex lives. I'm worried if I'm alone with him he might try to have sex with, and since I'm so attracted to him I might let him do it. How do I avoid putting myself in that situation?

 

My plan was to make short goals for myself. First to make it to 2 weeks in hard mode, than to a month, than to 90 days. I honestly feel like I should change the parameters to normal mode for my boyfriend though. I'm worried that I'm unintentionally making him abstain along with me.

 

This is true. Thanks for the advice!

 

Oh he is well aware of what I'm doing, and he supports it. My problem is since we are usually long distance and dont see each other in person too often, the urges are gonna be really strong for both of us.

 

It helps to always be in contact, we are always texting or video chatting. We meet in person every couple of weeks for a date. Most important is that you like the person enough to make it work.

 

Hey guys, just wanted to let everyone know how my date went since you all were thoughtful enough to give me advice.

We talked about it, and he definitely doesn't want me to do anything I don't want to do.....but I came prepared .

I slipped on a jockstrap and cup before the date. The minute we get into his car together, he reaches for the groin. Boy was he upset when he realized what I was wearing XD.

I'll go into more detail in my journal entry tonight if anyone wants to know.