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Worried About Worsening Premature Ejaculation with Partner

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by spacemonkey17, Nov 30, 2018.

  1. spacemonkey17

    spacemonkey17 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I'm intrigued by the idea of NoFap and I think I'd like to give it a try. I currently watch porn and masturbate every three days or so. I have sex with my partner less often. I think this is because I have body issues, and don't feel confident initiating sex. Another issue I have is premature ejaculation. It hasn't been a *huge* issue for us, per se, but I don't like it, that's for sure. Anyway, I have concerns about starting my NoFap journey because I feel like it's going to make my premature ejaculation even more severe when I do have sex, because surely I'll be more sensitive than I already am. I don't suppose any of you have tips for me? Thanks.
     
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  2. Welcome @spacemonkey17 ,

    The struggle is daily and the soul can be week. Take heart, the sin of PMO can be overcome.

    Take it one day, one hour or one minute at a time, because PMO can rewire the brain with proven complications.

    PIED - Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction which is caused by your brain demanding the "perfect" images it sees in porn. Then, in real life things are not so "perfect" and an erection is impossible.

    DE - Delayed Ejaculation. This can be caused by medication as well, but PMO can cause delayed ejaculation during real sex also. With a brain that's rewired by PMO being used to seeing perfect images to ejaculate, real life sex might not provide enough stimulation.

    Death Grip - frequent PMO rubs on the nerves in the penis. After a time, their is some nerve damage. So, gripping a bit more firmly happens. This new firmer grip rubs deeper nerves and it works for a while. Then, those nerves are damaged. With daily pmo, the nerve damage can be extensive and PMO will just continue the cycle until ejaculation is almost impossible.

    Prone Masturbation - frequently cited as the form of masturbation that causes the most nerve damage. As opposed to manual stimulation, Prone Masturbation uses the full body weight to rub on a bed or a pillow. Most PMO experts suggest never using this form of masturbation.

    If you have a problem with PMO, you are in the right place.

    PMO destroys Mind, Body and Spirit and is a tool of evil.

    Healing through Inspiration can be found at:

    Matthew 5:30 (click for link to quote)
    Galations 5:12 (Click for link to quote)
    Matthew 19:12 (Click for link to quote)


    PMO can cause a host of problems. Premature ejaculation isn't one of the most commonly named. In fact, DE (Delayed Ejaculation) is a well known outcome of PMO.

    I'm not saying that your Premature Ejaculation isn't caused by PMO, just that it's not one of the main problems with PMO.

    I'd highly recommend seeing a urologist regarding the Premature Ejaculation. It would seem to be an embarrassing topic to bring up to a urologist, but it's not. Urologist spend years learning and training to help men with urinary and genital problems (urologist also treat female urinary tract issues - but not genitals).

    So, to the urologist treating Premature Ejaculation is one of the reasons they come to work every day. Some have great success with medications while others opt for either a circumcision or even a redo on their circumcision to remove some of the more sensitive skin.

    You shouldn't have to live with Premature Ejaculation, there is medical help

    Never give up,

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