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worried re time to fix PIED (motivations for no pmo)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by jobbyj, Sep 6, 2017.

  1. Sep 6, 2017 #1
    jobbyj

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    one of the biggest reasons i am doing no pmo, is to fix my pied. i also have numerous other reasons that go beyond that.

    i have a concern or expectation that as the pied starts to fix, i will then get confidence from this nopmo exercise, and start to see benefits

    what i am worried about is, that given i have been on porn for 20 odd years since i was 12, that this is not going to be an easy ride?

    and at some point i feel like fapping again, as my dick becomes lifeless

    i dont want to do that, so looking for some tough love and comments please
     
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  2. Sep 6, 2017 #2
    Derek5150

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    Think about it: if it's lifeless then you can't really use it for self-pleasure. Imagine all you want -- the rocket ship just won't take off during the countdown. You have no choice but to give it a break. 90 days is perhaps the minimum if you want to restore it. Taking it any further will improve the results of both, your best-friend downstairs and your future. From what most of us are reading from the sexual health professionals is that we have to give our minds a break to desensitize itself from all the imagery/fantasy.

    If you try and force pleasure upon yourself, you're only doing yourself more harm. We are going through the same thing, brother. Hang in there because it's definitely not easy. I'm trying to get by on mental exercises, imagining myself 90 days from now and how confident I will feel. Even so, I plan on taking this as far as I can!
     
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  3. Sep 7, 2017 #3
    Bullarrd

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    Hang in there brother, we're all here with you:emoji_call_me::emoji_muscle:
     
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