Would You Date a *** ****? (Potential Trigger)

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Aug 26, 2017.

  1. The stars are their because it might be a trigger for some. So proceed with caution.




    But would you start dating someone if you knew they were a cam girl?
     
  2. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    No. I dont date girls, but if I did, I wouldn't want to be with someone who does something that I find immoral.
     
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  3. leo da king

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  4. Toomuchh

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    Yes, they are people too. But I would ask myself severaks things first, like If I was doing it for the right reasons and if she was someone I could trust. Etc. You guys shouldn't be so judgemental when it's obvious. We all got issues
     
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  5. vulture175

    vulture175 Fapstronaut

    Nooo, it is a trap. Stop watching cam girls, it's even more dangerous than casual porn. The emotions you feel for that girl are not real, and it's their job to make you feel like real.
     
  6. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    I get people have issues, but it's not about acception, it's about dating.

    For example, I can except a gay person as a friend, but I'll never date a gay person (for obvious reasons)

    I can except a bi person as a friend, but I'll not date a bi person
     
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  7. Toomuchh

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    What if that cam girl is using that money to pay herself thru med school. Dude people gotta do what they gotta do. You are being judgemental when you say no without a chance. And you not wanting to date a gay person would not be comparable.

    Any why wouldn't you want to date a bi woman. Hello threesome? That's your choice and I can respect it
     
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  8. leo da king

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    Threesome? I guess you're still in reboot if you even want that
     
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  9. Baroque

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    I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a woman who shows her body to the world.
     
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  10. Toomuchh

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    Lol yes I am and proud of it. What about you, what are you doing here.
     
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  11. Buzz Lightyear

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    Are you serious? You only date a women if she is capable of a relationship [courtship]. You shouldn't even be interested in a cam girl. I say this because I know you have conservative values.
     
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  12. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    I don't know. I'm trying to help new people who are struggling and relapsing
     
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  13. Toomuchh

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    Cool I can respect than. I hope you can also respect when someone else has a different point of view. I see what you're saying about not dating someone who does something you think is wrong. I think that is what is right for you. But I don't think it's right to judge someone only on their occupation without context, the world isn't black and white and people especially so.
     
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  14. Numbanddisturbed72

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    The responses on this thread are just offensive. Dont be so blind to the reasons why these girls do what they do. They are likely to be struggling financially and even suffering from emotional trauma. You people have enjoyed watching similar girls on screen in porn for your own pleasure. It doesnt put you above them. And guess what, webcamming could very well be an addiction for them.
     
  15. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    I get what you're saying numb, but I actually never watched porn as like in sex.
     
  16. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    It's not judgemental to not want to date someone who is actively doing, and enjoying doing, something you find disgusting and immoral. If she was an addict trying to get help and quit, that would be one thing, but someone who enjoys basically being a prostitute is not someone I would date. Didn't say she was a terrible person who should go to hell or something. But I wouldn't date her.
     
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  17. If she was an ex cam girl, sure. If she's currently a cam girl then, no.
     
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  18. Castielle

    Castielle Fapstronaut

    I also wouldn't date someone who actively does drugs, with no desire to quit, or who goes around getting in fights and punching people in the face, with no sense of that being wrong. That doesn't make me judgmental.

    It's incredibly ridiculous to say someone is "judgmental" for not dating ______ (fill in the blank). Dating is not the same as friendship or helping someone or accepting them as a person. People generally date people who have similar values and beliefs to them, whom they have a lot in common with, common interests and goals, etc. If you'd be willing to date a cam girl, that's totally fine, good for you, but don't condemn others as judgemental assholes for saying they wouldn't. Being a cam girl is something I would absolutely never do, even if I was "trying to pay my way through med school." I find it immoral and I think it's a despicable thing to do, to feed the addiction of men. So no, I wouldn't want to date someone who has such vastly different moral beliefs. That doesn't mean I think she's an evil person necessarily. But I don't have to date her.
     
  19. vulture175

    vulture175 Fapstronaut

    I think you're misunderstood. Like @leo da king mentioned above, it's not about acceptance, it's dating. We do understand they're trying to make money for some reasons, and we don't put them down like lower class, not just cam girls but also porn stars, sometimes i even thank to porn, but it does not mean i have to watch it again. Dating a cam girl is extremely risky. And the cam industry is messed up.

    Cam girls earn money from your tips, private shows or gifts. To make more money, they have to make you like her, be nice to you, make you feel like you are special, you are her boyfriend. Mostly everything she does is performing to keep you stay and tip her. SO, how do you make sure her feeling is genuine or is she just performing.

    Remember: a cam girl can make you feel like you're special, much special than other clients, this is a lie.

    Trust me, stop messing up with this industry. I was there. I thought i was in love. It was not real.
     
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  20. Numbanddisturbed72

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    Thanks for sharing your point of view :)
     

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