Is this a hypothetical question or is there a girl you are falling for? If there is then I'd like to know more before answering. How did you meet? Does she help or hinder your recovery from porn addiction? What does she see her economic choices as? Does she look to you for moral guidance - or does she just want a supportive boyfriend? What do you need from her in the relationship? Where does she see her life going in the future? Where do you see yours?