Would You Date a *** ****? (Potential Trigger)

Hey Toomuchh

I think you are right... my tone was a bit harsh. When we have strong feelings towards a topic, our emotional overtones can drown out our message. If we wish to be forces for positive change, then it is important that we keep our emotions in check. I apologize.

I was echoing a quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti. Perhaps his exact words will make more sense:

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."

I did not mean to discredit the hard work that millions of individuals are doing everyday to keep our society functioning well. We all have needs for survival and community. Every society has these needs and have attempted to establish some form of organization to satisfy them. What I meant was, just because something is considered "normal" or "mainstream" does not mean that it is morally right. The "bandwagon fallacy" sums this up well--"everyone else is doing it, therefore it is okay".

Thank you for replying and letting me know how my words impacted you. I think it is very important that we become aware of our words' power. I want to be a critical thinker, yet be respectful of everyone.

While porn has impacted my life negatively and probably yours as well, I do not feel comfortable labeling porn as "good" or "evil". However, I do think that critical questions need to be asked regarding the industry.

We are all here for each other and as a community. I am glad we were able to discuss this in a healthy way! If you ever want to talk feel free to message me bro.

All the best,
bs

 

Could be fun if she’s not looking for something serious. Never watching her shows or giving her money though

 

I know this is an old thread, but I will still give my opinion.

No.

I believe in monogamy. A man and a woman's body should be sacred to each other and not accessible for the pleasurable use of someone else. (Same thing with homosexual relationships)

I can't sit right with the idea of having a partner with their body being used to gratify someone else.

 

well who else are you going to have one with. It’s not really assumption so much as asking every woman until you find one that says yes.

actually had this hippy chick ask if I’d do a threesome with her and another guy but I wasn’t ready for any kind of threesome. Getting pushed aside after going limp would have really sucked.